Why do some people obsess over the thought of their partner cheating on them?

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I'm sure we have all encountered people like this....is it paranoia? insecurities? self conscience?

I can't lie...I went through a month-long period of this, but then I just seriously thought it over and realized I was putting together puzzle pieces that don't even exist :manny:

But my best friend went through this for about 6 months...that shyt was rough :wow:

I was there for him though...but he is doing WAY better now :win:
 

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social media, rap music, and television all promote feelings of insecurity in American relationships.

rap music might be one of the biggest culprits.

this is purposely done by corporations to create confusion and distrust between Black men and women.

this is a perfect example, song hasn't even been out for 2 weeks.

 

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Insecurity.
I been there, but for me it was different. Over time after finding out she cheated it started turning me on.
I used to be home in bed at night and her not texting bac den in my mind instead of being upset i was like "damn i bet her baby daddy diccin her down somethin serious right now :noah:
 

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social media, rap music, and television all promote feelings of insecurity in American relationships.

rap music might be one of the biggest culprits.

this is purposely done by corporations to create confusion and distrust between Black men and women.

this is a perfect example, song hasn't even been out for 2 weeks.



yeah man

movies and music make that shyt like it happens every day and it is acceptable..

fukk that :pacspit:
 

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Insecurity.
I been there, but for me it was different. Over time after finding out she cheated it started turning me on.
I used to be home in bed at night and her not texting bac den in my mind instead of being upset i was like "damn i bet her baby daddy diccin her down somethin serious right now :noah:
:patrice:like that turns you on?
 

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It has more to do with ego as well, but our society promotes monogamy as natural when its not. If you are in your 20's or early 30's, you haven't found the perfect woman yet. All women's pussies can get wet, that one girl you're with isn't really all that special, unless she's wealthy and willing to share her money with you.
 
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