Why do women ALWAYS paint you as the bad guy after the breakup even if you were genuinely good to them?

[JA_Carter]

Serious question

 

[Space Cowboy]

Because women are children.

End thread.

 

[Hater Eraser]

Ego is a fragile muhfugga breh ..

 

[AtomicUse]

This is the 5millionth thread on this. There are 100billion threads on the net about this. You could’ve posted this in the random thoughts thread breh, let it go. The world gon see she ain’t shyt eventually after her umpteenth failed relationship, she’s not for you to worry about anymore.

Online and Social Media Relationship talk post 2010 has really done nothing but further handicap the black community. Nothing has gotten any better despite all these podcasts, columns, apps, publications, street interviews, and seminars. All that’s happened is people have grifted it and gotten money to spend on trinkets.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Women aren't accountable for s-hit. It's always something else's fault.

 

[CaughtInTWebb]

I’ve thought about this in the past as well…..

Think it’s a case where even if they messed up…THEY can’t be the reason the relationship failed….so they blame you…



….

But I guess that goes both ways….

 

[Crayola Coyote]

American women

 

[Dont@Me]

Because they are always the victim and never do anything wrong. This isn't just true in relationships either, but life in general.

 

[AllHolosEve]

......Online and Social Media Relationship talk post 2010 has really done nothing but further handicap the black community. Nothing has gotten any better despite all these podcasts, columns, apps, publications and seminars. All that’s happened is people have grifted it and gotten money to spend on trinkets.

-I was gonna respond to this before I quoted it & saw you added onto it.

-Bad advice & people dropping "gems" & "game" that lack any real basis for nurturing a healthy relationship are handicapping us. The things you mention are part of it.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

truth is, we all do to some extent. if we feel slighted that is...

a person literally describing how they felt slighted automatically casts a bad light.

 

[bigde09]

Because they don't take responsibility for their share of mistakes they made in the relationship.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Serious question

...maybe you weren't as good as you thought. Good is a relative term.

 

[Pseudonym]

Look up narcissistic abuse, maybe it’s you or her but either way it’s mentally exhausting

 

[Elim Garak]

In my experience it's more just people who are immature do this. Not necessarily women. Generally when that person matures they admit their faults.

 

[CaughtInTWebb]

In my experience it's more just people who are immature do this. Not necessarily women. Generally when that person matures they admit their faults.

Real shyt.