Why do women demand to be spoiled a taken care of...

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

There is really nothing wrong with women demanding to be taken care of though. Wanting man who can provide you security is one thing. Gold digging is another.

Strong post

A bum chick making demands is only a problem for dudes who have no choice but to date bum chicks... or who feel insecure about not being able to meet those demands

nikkas trippin off a chick wanting to go to Applebees... "i aint got $25 mayne... fukk these materialistic hoes #imgointobrazil "

 

[Soundbwoy]

Mentality could just be a little different. Being from Detroit and having dated my share of Canadians, there seems to be a little less entitlement when dealing with women from across the border.

Makes me wonder if "demanding" that a man pays your bills and spoils you is more of an American ideology.

american mentality has crossed the border we have goldiggers here too

 

[Chris.B]

It's a black woman thing...never had a white girl I have dated say anything like this

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

It's a black woman thing...never had a white girl I have dated say anything like this

White women invented golddigging

 

[Ikwa]

every bytch grew up thinking she was a cinderella, they don't realize that they aint getting invited to the ball, only to a nut

 

[Ohnoits]

You shouldn't have to demand, your man should want to take care of you.. Taking care of a woman isn't always spending money. And if you're dating the right kind of woman she'll gladly reciprocate.

Nikki and @Binary are on point with these responses.

If I love a woman, I WANT to take care of her. She doesn't have to demand shyt from me, however, if she's not reciprocating naturally or wanting to take care of me, then she ain't shyt and the relationship isn't what I thought it was. You should both want to take care of each other

I do see a women talk about wanting to get taken care of, then you see they don't even know how to cook a meal-which is fine-but they can't do anything else either.

They don't work.

They don't provide emotional support.

They don't have kids.

Women who try to emulate that shyt get it from television.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Nikki and @Binary are on point with these responses.

If I love a woman, I WANT to take care of her. She doesn't have to demand shyt from me, however, if she's not reciprocating naturally or wanting to take care of me, then she ain't shyt and the relationship isn't what I thought it was. You should both want to take care of each other

I do see a women talk about wanting to get taken care of, then you see they don't even know how to cook a meal-which is fine-but they can't do anything else either.

They don't work.

They don't provide emotional support.

They don't have kids.

Women who try to emulate that shyt get it from television.

Yep basketball wives

 

[JAYVA110]

Because they've been told their whole lives that a man has to court them and exceed their wildest dreams in order to be worthy of their overrated vagina.

Not their fault, really, but the shaming tactics and shyt that comes out when we call them on that BS or don't marry them is hilarious.

Real talk

 

[Liquid]

Because they've been told their whole lives that a man has to court them and exceed their wildest dreams in order to be worthy of their overrated vagina.

Not their fault, really, but the shaming tactics and shyt that comes out when we call them on that BS or don't marry them is hilarious.

the extremely clean/best looking ones are the ones guys need to worry about.

From my experience those are often the ones who don't really have much else going for them but the great looks and everything always being kept up 100% at all times.

Once you get to know them that ugly comes out...gotta make sure to put them in their place IMMEDIATELY. You have to...IMMEDIATELY.

 

[shylittlekitten]

But don't do shyt for their man? Don't suppourt him with anything don't have his back.

because society has told a woman she can't do anything for herself and she deserves gifts simply for having a vagina.

the extremely clean/best looking ones are the ones guys need to worry about.

From my experience those are often the ones who don't really have much else going for them but the great looks and everything always being kept up 100% at all times.

Once you get to know them that ugly comes out...gotta make sure to put them in their place IMMEDIATELY. You have to...IMMEDIATELY.

that is called high maintenance.

 

[Liquid]

because society has told a woman she can't do anything for herself and she deserves gifts simply for having a vagina.



that is called high maintenance.

its called a high probability of having nothing else going for yourself. There are exceptions to this rule, but going with my experience here.

 

[shylittlekitten]

its called a high probability of having nothing else going for yourself. There are exceptions to this rule, but going with my experience here.

you believe high maintenance women have anything going for themselves?

 

[Liquid]

you believe high maintenance women have anything going for themselves?

obviously some of them do, but the majority will throw fits over bs. You know the types who just HAVE to have the coach bag, the weekly nail jobs, the hair done at a salon regularly, massages, tan, shopping at sephora, the damn clothes, shoes, wanting to go out to eat EVERY single weekend. Oddly enough those are the most insecure ones once you break through that initial wall.

I should know...I had to deal with a couple of them before.