Why do women get upset when men who they curved delete the messages

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I had a situation like this happen about a month ago where a chick ghosted and curved me for about two weeks and then got mad when I couldn't remember anything about her as I deleted the text conversation when she came back.

Then actually thought that I was going to send her some flowers at work after giving me no play :mjtf:
 
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I had a situation like this happen about a month ago where a chick ghosted me for about two weeks and then got mad when I couldn't remember anything about her as I deleted the text conversation.

Ghosting and curving are different though. A woman can curve with the expectation of having you in the friend zone. So deleting messages would be deleting messages of a "pal":mjgrin:

When women say they just want to be friends,do men actually tell them they arent interested in being friends? I uses to just ghost them if we didnt know each other like that. Or id just gradually fade them to black if we were coworkers or accquaintances of some sort.
 

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Ghosting and curving are different though. A woman can curve with the expectation of having you in the friend zone. So deleting messages would be deleting messages of a "pal":mjgrin:

When women say they just want to be friends,do men actually tell them they arent interested in being friends? I uses to just ghost them if we didnt know each other like that. Or id just gradually fade them to black if we were coworkers or accquaintances of some sort.

Well technically she did curve me before ghosting as I kept trying to hang out with her but she insisted on keeping me in the friendzone with no benefits or whatever. So she came back weeks later trying to be friends again and got mad when I forget the basics of the conversation and all about her.

I think she had a man, so that's why I wasn't really tripping about it.
 

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This.

If she doesn't care about the validation then she doesn't care whether you delete the message or not. But if she craves the attention and validation then she might be irritated that she can't use it to brag on how men are lusting for her.
 

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This.

If she doesn't care about the validation then she doesn't care whether you delete the message or not. But if she craves the attention and validation then she might be irritated that she can't use it to brag on how men are lusting for her.

And then they have the nerve to gaslight and say shyt like
"You're being manipulative", "You're being rude for no reason " , or "Why can't you just be my friend?"
These are always traps women make for men they think are beneath them.
 
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