Why do women label failed relationships “toxic” and/or “abusive”?

[Ahadi]

“He was toxic”

“He was abusive”

Why are these always the go-to terms? Is this a cop out excuse? Don’t they understand how dangerous the term abusive is? Especially when labeling a man.

 

[SunZoo]

Maybe they were abusive/toxic? I would be less concerned about trying to defend men you don't know from being labeled as such and more with women...shyt EVERYBODY being self aware enough to understand their role in their own suffering.

You only run into reflections of yourself out in the world.

 

[The_Truth]

A LOT of people are in toxic relationships.

 

[Hey_zeus]

Projectionreality

 

[Max.]

No accountability

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Most relationship seem to have some toxic times

So they probably not lying

Alot of times tho they dont like to admit

They were more toxic than the other person tho.

They seem to always blame the man and in some cases its true.


But alot of these women dont say anything about they inconsistent behavior or argumentive behavior etc.

Its just men are toxic

And alot of times those kindof of women are never in good relationships cause they never accountable

They go hand and hand

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Just remember, every woman’s ex was toxic, abusive, controlling and evil. It’s never her fault for the relationship failing. She was the perfect angel.

Spoiler

 

[Roid Jones]

It's all done to absolve them of responsibility, even if the relationship ended on good terms it will still be framed to place her as the innocent party

 

[J.E.T.S]

No accountability

… they wasn’t able to run free and do whatever it is they wanted.

big ass kids.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Half the time, they were the ones who were toxic and abusive.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Lowkey I think most ppl's relationships are toxic

 

[Coco Loco]

Probably because they were and they know what to avoid from here on out. If they have a pattern of toxicity and or abuse, they have some self reflection to do.

 

[Pseudonym]

A LOT of people are in toxic relationships.

Lowkey I think most ppl's relationships are toxic

Probably because they were and they know what to avoid from here on out. If they have a pattern of toxicity and or abuse, they have some self reflection to do.

 

[Ahadi]

Maybe they were abusive/toxic? I would be less concerned about trying to defend men you don't know from being labeled as such and more with women...shyt EVERYBODY being self aware enough to understand their role in their own suffering.

You only run into reflections of yourself out in the world.

Im not worried at all. It’s just the same excuse and the sisterhood gives in and protects each other it. Whether it’s right or wrong.

It’s a dangerous term and is why society continues to coddle.

 

[Ahadi]

It's all done to absolve them of responsibility, even if the relationship ended on good terms it will still be framed to place her as the innocent party

Exactly.

& ppl keep falling for it. The same redundant terms. Did they not realize this year 1? Or the 1st month of being together?