Why do women spend hours getting their hair done but zero time working out?

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I was raised around white people my whole life. And my mom fat shamed us growing up. My mom was a size 0 with 4 kids. She was not trying to have any fat daughters lmao.

OMG.. my mom did and does the same, very strict with body maintenance. The "moment on the lips, lifetime on the hips" speeches. Made worse by the fact that I'm the only girl in the household growing up, with my dad and all my brothers. So she was extra when it came to appearances. Even does that til this day. Now I just got it into my head that being fat is not an option. I have to catch myself at times, making comments with my own daughter so that she doesn't have a complex; awareness and balance is key. But impressive how your mom maintained herself after 4 kids.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

OMG.. my mom did and does the same, very strict with body maintenance. The "moment on the lips, lifetime on the hips" speeches. Made worse by the fact that I'm the only girl in the household growing up, with my dad and all my brothers. So she was extra when it came to appearances. Even does that til this day. Now I just got it into my head that being fat is not an option. I have to catch myself at times, making comments with my own daughter so that she doesn't have a complex; awareness and balance is key. But impressive how your mom maintained herself after 4 kids.

Yeah, she did. She would make all kind of comments all the time, like if she thought I ate too much and what-not. Now I was always the thickest one out of me and my sisters so she came down harder on me. I have more complexes about weight because of it. She's dead now, but thanks to her, I stay on top of my weight. I'm glad she fat-shamed me tbh. My dad said he always hated that she did that to us, but if she wouldn't have, I feel like I would be very overweight.

 

[Wardo]

How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Yeah, she did. She would make all kind of comments all the time, like if she thought I ate too much and what-not. Now I was always the thickest one out of me and my sisters so she came down harder on me. I have more complexes about weight because of it. She's dead now, but thanks to her, I stay on top of my weight. I'm glad she fat-shamed me tbh. My dad said he always hated that she did that to us, but if she wouldn't have, I feel like I would be very overweight.

My sympathies for the loss of your mother.
Right, I feel the same- I have a greater appreciation for what she did and instilled in me, now that I'm a grown woman myself.
That's just second nature at this point - to maintain and put effort into how I look and carry myself.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Because getting a new hairstyle and makeup is easy and it takes no effort. Used to work at Walmart and this one fat sloppy broad used to always have a different hairstyle every week or so. And you could easily tell her makeup was caked on.

I don't like talking bad about people, but you gotta have some type of standards. Been dying up in the gym, be damned if I go after some wumbo jumbo broad

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

My girl got a natural fro and works out daily

This^
My girl is also natural and works out religiously.

 

[Standing on business]

. I'd rather die than be fat--I'm so serious yall.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Yooo we had an ongoing joke in my family, where we said there were two instances where we want everyone to smother us or shoot us. The first is if we ever get fat. The second is if we get maimed or crippled in a brutal accident. I don’t want to live the ugly life, shyt smother me with a pillow during hospital recovery. And my dad would often tell my mom, shoot me when I get as fat as xyz(whichever morbidly obese person he saw on tv) and my mom would say I should have shot your ass a while ago then lmao. But all of us were dead serious except for my dad obviously since he was fat. I would not want to be a fat or an ugly woman.

 

[Elle Driver]

I have a small frame and the women in my family gain weight in their stomachs. I wanted to gain weight but knew if I did it would go to my tummy. I decided to get it so I wouldn't have to worry about it being fat honestly.

When I got the surgery I had a lot of muscle and very little fat. I just told her to make my butt as big as possible but I didn't think I'd get much. It was more about maintaining a permanent flat stomach.

So glad I got it. The surgery went well and all the transfer fat held up crazy well. Probably because I was so healthy when I got the surgery. I look good. It feel great. I gained the weight I wanted. My butt is probably a little too big but honestly it's hard for me to tell because I still see the small person in the mirror.

If I work out or eat right now it's for health. It's actually very liberating knowing that you don't have to constantly worry about being attractive.

Since the surgery one of my friends got it just because she loved my results and another is going to get it within the next year.

Also I did 6 months worth of research and went to a great doctor so I was very confident going in. It's been like 6 years now.

Did you do it in America or abroad?

I wanted to get my boobs done in my 20s but decided against it.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Did you do it in America or abroad?

I wanted to get my boobs done in my 20s but decided against it.

I got it done in the DR. It was great. The only thing they lacked was stronger meds. I took a friend with me and we stayed a week. She took good care of me. I was going on hikes and tours a few days later.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

. nikkas was saying the exact same thing as OP in the thread about the fat bytch getting ignored in favor of her skinny threads, or in any thread about the latest ig build-a-thots.

Wonder why nikkas decided to put their on in this thread?

 

[feelosofer]

That's a stereotype lots of women work out.

 

[Berry]

This could apply to anyone regardless

Why do you play video games after work instead of working out?
Why are you watching sports instead of working out?
Why are you out with friends nearly everyday instead of working out?
Why are you sleeping in instead of hitting the gym?

He likely got flamed because he was clearly trying to be clever, but that fact is working out for anyone takes motivation and a lot of people will do other things instead of dedicating that time

 

[Bart simpson]

My butt is probably a little too big

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