Why Do You Think Women Like a$$holes So Much?

bogey_j

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I know people will come in here and say its because a$$holes have confidence and its the confidence women are attracted to, but I think its deeper than that....

I think there's some dark part of the female psyche that gets off on being treated like shyt :ohhh: the emotionally unavailable a$$hole (that is #HOH to the fullest) will gets more hoes than the confident, well- adjusted good guy. i'm trying to figure out whether its a nature vs nurture thing. does the media train them to think this way? because in a lot of the media marketed towards women the dudes (who are love interests) are straight up a$$holes. think about the songs they listen to which is all about heartbreak and the guy cheating on them

I don't know breh, I think its more than just 'confidence' :francis:
 

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My guess is they like the challenge and the emotional ride of it all. Some women like the challenge of trying to change someone and I think some of them like being driven crazy by these type of men. It's lame, but oh well
 

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“Men are attracted to flawed women too of course, but their illusion is that they can fix them. Women don't want to fix anything. They just want to be entertained. The truth about women is you can do anything to them except bore them.”
― Javier Bardem (as character "Reiner"), The Counselor

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mind = blown. that quote is too true man. bad boys are good at keeping these broads on an emotional rollercoaster so it makes a lot of sense
 
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“Men are attracted to flawed women too of course, but their illusion is that they can fix them. Women don't want to fix anything. They just want to be entertained. The truth about women is you can do anything to them except bore them.”
― Javier Bardem (as character "Reiner"), The Counselor
Holy shyt I thought I was the only person who walked away from that movie with that line in mind. That movie is nothing but nikkas waxing poetic :wow:
 

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The perceived "a$$hole" doesn't care about a woman's feelings. This is actually something all men have to put into practice, as well
as just becoming more interesting dudes overall.

The typical guy things before he speaks. The a$$hole says what comes to mind.
The typical guy will hang around a bit if she is late to a date. The a$$hole dips, hangs with the boys, AND gets the number of the waitress at the restaurant he left.

The a$$hole will do him no matter what. This means he can either REALLY piss a girl off, or he can really turn her on. Either way, he isn't boring her, which
is all you need to get somewhere with most women. Just be the best part of her day and she will give everything to you.

Source: experience after taking a massive L
 

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“Men are attracted to flawed women too of course, but their illusion is that they can fix them. Women don't want to fix anything. They just want to be entertained. The truth about women is you can do anything to them except bore them.”
― Javier Bardem (as character "Reiner"), The Counselor

men are attracted to flawed women because they enjoy the challenge and want to be entertained. women dont see a man's flaws, they see a project. their illusion is to change him, this never happens but they are too hooked on the thrills its difficult to leave.
 
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