Why Don't Women Just Say WTF Is Wrong With Them?

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Hate it too but last year ol girl I was messing with at the time made the mistake of wearing a dress in the summer when she tried this quiet pissed off shyt. So I snuck in there like The Flash and ate that shyt into outer space.
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Afterward I asked her what was wrong and she told everything quickly like she was on Dr.Phil or Oprah.
 

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I don't like to talk when I'm upset. Wait til I calm down or else risk getting cursed out.
If he's your man, then why you gonna direct the anger at him if it's not about him specifically?

Edit:
Not upset at you at all, just stating how I feel.
 
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I don't like to talk when I'm upset. Wait til I calm down or else risk getting cursed out.

She'll speak when she's ready

Only thing I'll concede. Absolutely only thing I'll concede to, is if it really is some shyt that isn't worth even discussing because it won't affect anything. I get that way too sometimes, so I understand y'all when it comes to that. I'm just extremely good at hiding those moments, though. :sas2:
 

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best thing to do in these situations is to just fall back and distance yourself.

Actually, it's best not to speak in anger and say regretful shyt that you don't really mean. Women have the right idea about that. I have a temper and tend to go off and then have to try to take back what I said. I'm working on that.

I guess the problem with us as men is that we always want to fix shyt and sometimes refuse to recognize that that's not always necessary because some "problems" will resolve themselves. If they told you every little thing, then we'd be complaining about that too. If they played by our rules, they wouldn't be able to win.

It's really our problem because we see she seems angry and we think we need to do something, but if she wants help or just support she'll ask for it. When nothing is *really* wrong, they're not wrong for staying silent, they're wise. We foolishly try to mollycoddle them at the wrong time.
 
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Actually, it's best not to speak in anger and say regretful shyt that you don't really mean. Women have the right idea about that. I guess the problem with us as men is that we always want to fix shyt and sometimes refuse to recognize that that's not always necessary because some "problems" will resolve themselves. If they told you every little thing, then we'd be complaining about that too.

It's really our problem because we see she's angry and think we need to do something, but if she wants help or just support she'll ask for it. When nothing is *really* wrong, they're not wrong for staying silent, they're wise. We foolishly try to mollycoddle them at the wrong time.
i agree. which is why i say fall back.
 
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