best thing to do in these situations is to just fall back and distance yourself.
Actually, it's best not to speak in anger and say regretful shyt that you don't really mean. Women have the right idea about that. I have a temper and tend to go off and then have to try to take back what I said. I'm working on that.
I guess the problem with us as men is that we always want to fix shyt and sometimes refuse to recognize that that's not always necessary because some "problems" will resolve themselves. If they told you every little thing, then we'd be complaining about that too. If they played by our rules, they wouldn't be able to win.
It's really our problem because we see she
seems angry and we think we need to do something, but if she wants help
or just support she'll ask for it. When nothing is *really* wrong, they're not wrong for staying silent, they're wise. We foolishly try to mollycoddle them at the wrong time.