Why is saying “I love you” such a big deal :dahell:

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If you 'love' a chick but don't want to be in a committed relationship with her then you don't love her.

When chicks cry about being fukked over I usually think "bytch you knew what it was" but it's cats out here throwing around the L word like that? :ohhh:


Don't know the difference between love and like brehs.
I think it's possible to love more than 1 woman..
 

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But why say it? This is the same type of shyt mentality that has lead to people thinking marriage is just a bunch of meaningless words on a piece of paper.

nikkas wanna throw around words that have historically carried weight then get mad when females is walking around here jaded and damaged. Sounding like some of them #MeToo bytches with that "b...but I gave non-verbal cues!11!". Foh :hhh:.


And let's be real, a lot of nikkas out here saying that shyt aren't showing the signs of being anything other than a boyfriend. These nikkas fake whole relationships for p*ssy.

I’ve had chicks(people in general really) tell me they love me and I don’t take it serious because the actions don’t match what I consider love.

Love is also subjective in its meaning. Someone telling you they love you doesn’t mean anything if it’s not the kinda love you’re looking for.

OP could very well love these chicks but his idea of love doesn’t have to match someone else’s idea of love.

To some people, love doesn’t mean taking a bullet for someone
 

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You attribute sex to love lmao, that's terrible in of itself. Maybe you should start dissecting what people say to you, everything somebody tells you (like "love you") ain't meant to be taken at face value
No you stupid muthafukka.

That was an example given outside of actual "friendships" that are platonic.

Stfu.
 

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i would literally say that shyt to every female that I click with and have amazing chemistry with if they didn’t think it means something that it doesn’t (to me at least).

To me it’s the same as saying “I have love for you”. But you take out two words in that sentence and people interpret it much differently :what:. I can love a chick but not want to be in a committed relationship with her :yeshrug:.

To me, to Love is to fully accept that person for who they are without negative judgment. There are people that I don’t show parts of me to because I know they probably wouldn’t accept it, therefore they don’t love me, or I never gave them the chance to fully love me.

To Love is to appreciate maximally. This Disney washing idea of “love” is foreign to me brehs :hhh:

Do you have this entire conversation with every broad you chill with so that you can redefine the word love to them?
Or wouldn't it make more sense to realize the meaning of the words that you use and choose to use them better?









Why are all ya'll nikkas so weird?
 

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Because if you don't say I love you to the other person theyre going to think you don't love them :what: it's stupid
 

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i would literally say that shyt to every female that I click with and have amazing chemistry with if they didn’t think it means something that it doesn’t (to me at least).

To me it’s the same as saying “I have love for you”. But you take out two words in that sentence and people interpret it much differently :what:. I can love a chick but not want to be in a committed relationship with her :yeshrug:.

To me, to Love is to fully accept that person for who they are without negative judgment. There are people that I don’t show parts of me to because I know they probably wouldn’t accept it, therefore they don’t love me, or I never gave them the chance to fully love me.

To Love is to appreciate maximally. This Disney washing idea of “love” is foreign to me brehs :hhh:
you got a real narrow definition of love, that's why. Loving someone requires something of you in how you treat them and the place they occupy in your life. You can accept people and do nothing for them. But if you love them, as in actively treat them with love, you show that in multiple ways.
 

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Females associate the phrase 'I Love You' with monogamy and marriage. Unless it's their family, of course.

Understand that and do NOT say it if that isn't your aim because as soon as they hear it from your lips they're thinking altar.
 

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this right here is the worst thing you can do :mjlol:
They dont my address (I travel a lot), don't give em my real name, don't have my real number, I don't have social media. So yeah good luck on them tracking me down when I ghost em like I usually do
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