Why is she so hot but then so cold?

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So a chick I really want to be involved with came back around into my life... and it was hot... the conversation, the quality time... her pouring out personal information( while leaving out things I thought she would mention) I played it cool had great time and we got intimate besides sexual which was due to time constraints. Next day she hit me up, next after we still talkin trying to make plans for next meet up as soon as possible because to be honest this seems like repeat behavior from the past and voila.... goes cold on me. How can you have such a deep feeling and connection and the person reciprocate they feel/have felt the same and reciprocate feelings you tell them you have. Then go so cold to the polar opposite where you don't even talk to them? Wtf
 

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Why dont you tell her how ur feeling
I'm reluctant. She might spin it into some other shyt like last time she said lets be friends and tried some other dude that didnt work out but she didnt talk about all that then this time she wasn't on none of that and she said all I want is to fukk.. which is not true but I am going to want to fukk someone I'm deeply attracted to.
 

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Go cold on her. Do not contact her. Easier said than done, sure, but you'll know where she stands. Either she'll hit you up or she wont.
This is what I did before and she came back around after some months, it's not like we haven't already sexed, I want to tell how I feel more in depth but i feel the risk of pushing her away is there, shes guarded
 

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This is what I did before and she came back around after some months, it's not like we haven't already sexed, I want to tell how I feel more in depth but i feel the risk of pushing her away is there, shes guarded

You'll always regret not saying something. Take your shot and let the cards fall where they may. IMO.

:yeshrug:
 

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I'm reluctant. She might spin it into some other shyt like last time she said lets be friends and tried some other dude that didnt work out but she didnt talk about all that then this time she wasn't on none of that and she said all I want is to fukk.. which is not true but I am going to want to fukk someone I'm deeply attracted to.

then just fukk and forget feelings.


she obviously just want some dikk, and she doesn't see you as her life partner
 

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female: I just want to fukk

(she comes over to your place/ invites you over to her place)

male: talk talk talk talk talk talk talk
male mind: oh man we're hitting it off!!!

female: talk, talk,
female mind: why isn't this dude fukking me yet.. need to text other dude..
female: ok bye

male: why isn't she feeling me brehs
 
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