Ezekiel 25:17
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A bunch of bitter men and women that hate each other all going overseas to poor countries for love. 
Why is the American dating scene terrible and filled with bitter sexes?
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letti cook
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unrealistic expectations on both sides
Most are not going overseas to find love.
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
People are emotionally stunted. People don’t want to acknowledge that they are the problem.
Mike Nasty
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"I don't go outside and make threads based off what I see on YouTube"
Op is autistic, he may seem like he's trolling but he's legit slow.
Remember that thread by him: Wfh got us eating good
Someone asked if he worked from home and said no
Sex tourism was always a thing and most people just go to get laid that weekend. It’s not just an American thing.A bunch of bitter men and women that hate each other all going overseas to poor countries for love.
Dudes from Europe do the same shyt
Dysfunctional families = Dysfunctional romancing
AquaCityBoy
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this is a symptom of a problem completely unrelated to dating. People are struggling financially and romance without finance is a nuisance.
That's a bar.
Ezekiel 25:17
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Y'all be the same nikkas that say wenches aren't only on the internet and we need to treat them like a real threat.
The Coli. Damned if you don't. Damned if you do.
Kenny West
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Countries far poorer than the US don't have those issues thothis is a symptom of a problem completely unrelated to dating. People are struggling financially and romance without finance is a nuisance.
IIVI
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A lot of good ones are gone early and never get into the toxic cycle.
Many successful people out there follow this path:
1. Know what they want to be early.
2. Go to college to become it.
3. Find love of life or fellow high-value significant other either in college or high-paying field.
4. Get married, buy house and raise kids all before 30.
It's survivorship bias. The happy ones ain't going to be out there talkin about "tea", "manosphere", "red pill", etc. because they're too busy raising their kids together.
Who's the most popular leader of toxic dating content? Andrew Tate? Dude got 6m followers. FreshAndFit got about 200k followers.
That's quite a small number compared to people in marriages (60m married couples last year = 120m married people).
Even if 30% divorce, that's still a large number of happily-married people.
I think those who start getting into their late 20's and don't have it going yet start getting a little antsy.
Getting older doesn't mean getting more toxic as long you can check those bad thoughts from warping your perspectives.
Social media sites like twitter are a very small portion of the population, realize that ain't really accurate.
Total Twitter users = 400 mil (and shrinking)
Total world population = 8 billion
That's only 5% of the world's population who are on Twitter (and even then many of them are happily married).
shyt, at 1.5 billion users there are more happy-go-lucky people on TikTok generating content than there are miserable people posting rants on Twitter.
If you don't get sucked into generalities and use some simple logic, you won't grow bitter out of fear.
Remember, the key word is nuance.
Many successful people out there follow this path:
1. Know what they want to be early.
2. Go to college to become it.
3. Find love of life or fellow high-value significant other either in college or high-paying field.
4. Get married, buy house and raise kids all before 30.
It's survivorship bias. The happy ones ain't going to be out there talkin about "tea", "manosphere", "red pill", etc. because they're too busy raising their kids together.
Who's the most popular leader of toxic dating content? Andrew Tate? Dude got 6m followers. FreshAndFit got about 200k followers.
That's quite a small number compared to people in marriages (60m married couples last year = 120m married people).
Even if 30% divorce, that's still a large number of happily-married people.
I think those who start getting into their late 20's and don't have it going yet start getting a little antsy.
Getting older doesn't mean getting more toxic as long you can check those bad thoughts from warping your perspectives.
Social media sites like twitter are a very small portion of the population, realize that ain't really accurate.
Total Twitter users = 400 mil (and shrinking)
Total world population = 8 billion
That's only 5% of the world's population who are on Twitter (and even then many of them are happily married).
shyt, at 1.5 billion users there are more happy-go-lucky people on TikTok generating content than there are miserable people posting rants on Twitter.
If you don't get sucked into generalities and use some simple logic, you won't grow bitter out of fear.
Remember, the key word is nuance.
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