Men, especially black men have legitimate beef with the way dating cultural taken off since the feminist movement. Black men have a unmoving place underneath white women in society so we don't enjoy economic privilege, but yet we still suffer the repercussions from "male privilege" despite not having any.
Because we're not a double minority like black women we enjoy no victimization or the benefit of the doubt, so media and society are comfortable pointing the finger at us for ALL of the black community's problems.
So we essentially have all of the world's problems of being black with none of the benefits of being men. Which culminates in the culture of dating with our women and the frustrations expressed on coli.
White men always have economic white privilege to boost them in society when they don't measure up genetically but black men don't have that safety valve. Even black men who do okay with themselves will never measure up in the eyes of most bw if they don't fit the mold promoted by our culture.
In ever other culture the ain't shyt men are shunned and disregarded, but in black culture they're promoted and preferred.
At the end of the day ww will always take stability over anything. You think these dentists and Lawyers are demolishing these women's uterus? Hell no. But you think a bw will settle for a man with no pipe game because he's a good dude? I'll link you numerous LSA threads that prove the answer.
So 80% of Black men who aren't tall enough, swoll enough or have enough swag are in a position where they have little opportunity to improve their market value unless they beat odds economically or adopt the culture promoted.
I don't suffer from any of the problems above as I'm good looking and successful, but I find it disheartening that other men say fukk those struggling because they can't relate. Maybe I'm different because I just came into my own after college, but we need to stop judging and clowning each other because EVERY OTHER PERSON ON THE PLANET is already doing it. People need to vent, and they should be able to on the coli.
Because we're not a double minority like black women we enjoy no victimization or the benefit of the doubt, so media and society are comfortable pointing the finger at us for ALL of the black community's problems.
So we essentially have all of the world's problems of being black with none of the benefits of being men. Which culminates in the culture of dating with our women and the frustrations expressed on coli.
White men always have economic white privilege to boost them in society when they don't measure up genetically but black men don't have that safety valve. Even black men who do okay with themselves will never measure up in the eyes of most bw if they don't fit the mold promoted by our culture.
In ever other culture the ain't shyt men are shunned and disregarded, but in black culture they're promoted and preferred.
At the end of the day ww will always take stability over anything. You think these dentists and Lawyers are demolishing these women's uterus? Hell no. But you think a bw will settle for a man with no pipe game because he's a good dude? I'll link you numerous LSA threads that prove the answer.
So 80% of Black men who aren't tall enough, swoll enough or have enough swag are in a position where they have little opportunity to improve their market value unless they beat odds economically or adopt the culture promoted.
I don't suffer from any of the problems above as I'm good looking and successful, but I find it disheartening that other men say fukk those struggling because they can't relate. Maybe I'm different because I just came into my own after college, but we need to stop judging and clowning each other because EVERY OTHER PERSON ON THE PLANET is already doing it. People need to vent, and they should be able to on the coli.
(Anecdotal as hell)
