Back when I first divorced I got into a relationship with these two broads. I only was in that situation about 8 months before I quit them for my current girl, but the number 1 and 2 thing them and my current girl said was attractive about me was 'YOU see your son ALL THE TIME(I have never been an every other weekend dad my son stays with me 18 to 19 days out of the month), and we have never seen you call off work not a single day, even when you were sick.' I was wondering why that was so attractive to them until I see threads like this and realize I'm not a mama's boy. I was raised by the old rules, grown men don't make excuses you just find solutions cause new problems pop up everyday. shyt is pitiful seeing shyt like this, a bunch of wimps.