"Why you cant man up and say something other than that?"

[TheNig]

this was a text sent to me after this youngin' decided to call everything off becuz i'm not affectionate her. all i said was "ok" becuz i get where she coming from. i'm not really an affectionate person. but thats not my problem.


my problem is this... when did it start to be ok for a man to text long ass letters to chicks telling them how they feel? this chick is 21 and i'll be 28 in a few weeks. i guess she's used to dealing with dudes who openly express themselves. is it that big of a generation gap? my pops always told me that a man should only talk when it is necessary. talking for other reasons only means that you want to be heard. is this what is acceptable now? for a dude to fly off the handle and get all emotional with bytches. do young bytches find that shyt attractive? i'm confused. i thought dealing with younger chicks would be a little easier.

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

Ok

 

[TMillzy]

If you manned up and told her some shyt, she woulda broke down and got emotional. Women dont wanna hear the truth

 

[TheNig]

Ok

come on cuz. i really dont know what else i'm supposed to say to youngin'. am i missing something? i dont know how these young heads think.

 

[TheNig]

If you manned up and told her some shyt, she woulda broke down and got emotional. Women dont wanna hear the truth

but my question is this... is that really considered manning up? getting all emotional and shyt. dont get me wrong, i think all us have a time when we get a bit emotional. like at a funeral or if someone you know was in a bad accident. but i'm talking about being involved with a woman. weak ass emotional nikkas is frowned upon as far as i know.

 

[Kenny West]

Don't listen to that shyt. it'll turn u into a lightskin nikka

just spend some time with her and confess something stupid to her. like u afraid of spiders or some shyt

it works

 

[john goodman]

texting more than 1 sentence is borderline simp status

if i actually have something to say i'll call

in texting i find it's best to be as aloof as possible

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

come on cuz. i really dont know what else i'm supposed to say to youngin'. am i missing something? i dont know how these young heads think.

I was just fukking with you. Shorty is trying to bait you into a drawn out conversation where she can out argue you into making you the boyfriend she designed in her mind aka "a simp"

 

[FlyGuy]

a lot of words doesn't have to = "emotional response"



you could say a whole lot of nothing

 

[sixsixtwo]

The average 21 year old female's ego is sky high & they're used to getting their way with nikkaz.. Because of their high SMP value..

She's frustrated with you because you're not jumping on the "simp train" like most dudes would do, she can't comprehend why her manipulations/feminine wiles aren't working..

 

[Kenny West]

The average 21 year old female's ego is sky high & they're used to getting their way with nikkaz.. Because of their high SMV value..

She's frustrated with you because you're not jumping on the "simp train" like most dudes would do, she can't comprehend why her manipulations/feminine wiles aren't working..

I'd like to question though what you think t/s should do in this situation.

It's a shyt test we all see it, but what to do about it?

 

[TheNig]

Don't listen to that shyt. it'll turn u into a lightskin nikka

just spend some time with her and confess something stupid to her. like u afraid of spiders or some shyt

it works

i am a light skin nikka. i get into it with @mastermind all the time about the color of my blackness. thats my nikka tho.

 

[A.V.]

Ok

 

[Ohene]

but my question is this... is that really considered manning up? getting all emotional and shyt. dont get me wrong, i think all us have a time when we get a bit emotional. like at a funeral or if someone you know was in a bad accident. but i'm talking about being involved with a woman. weak ass emotional nikkas is frowned upon as far as i know.

african breh-thren...how you gonna let a girl try to dictate what makes a man? come on breh

she just wants the upperhand. By saying ok you had her fuming. As a 21 year old...I know

 

[Ohene]

i am a light skin nikka. i get into it with @mastermind all the time about the color of my blackness. thats my nikka tho.

i swear your pic has been posted. you are in no way shap or form a light skinned dude.

youre this skin tone? http://www.billboard.com/photos/stylus/2582299-chris-brown-rihanna-tattoo-617-409.jpg