Why you degenerates never put a Breh on attachment styles?

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Shadow Work and Self-Mastery: 2-in-1 Guide, Workbook, and Journal to Release Past Trauma, Quit Destructive Behaviors, and Build Healthy Relationships Through Deep Self-Awareness and Authentic Growth

This book was the starting point of me doing a total 180 with my life. I've since purchased and finished all her books that she's released. I'm no longer the temperamental and reactive person that I used to be, nor do I ruminate or attach anger to things that don't serve me any more. Hopefully some others can get the same results that I did from her work. I will say that there is a lot of thinking and journaling involved, but I feel like I greatly benefitted from committing myself to seeing it through.
 

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I just learned this about myself (secure but somewhat dismissive avoidant)

I date, do the right things in a relationship, and somewhere along realize I can't fall in love.

It's like my attraction reaches a ceiling.

Psychology says it's your brain subconsciously learning to be hyper self reliant and independent because people let you down/ abandonment / or moved around a lot at a very young age.

I should have known when my exes and flings would say "if we broke up, you'd be just fine moving on without any hate or remorse" or "I feel like you'd be the nicest guy to break up with and you would be just fine"

Crazy part is it's true.

Crazier is my girl wants to get married near future and it's like I love alot but I can't seem to fully fall in love all the way yearning and all that
 
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