Iverson_64
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White men are all over the Internet claiming that White women are selfish and spoiled whores who are feminazis who divorce rape them and have no traditional values anymore. And many are claiming that Asian and Hispanic women or women overseas are more feminine and treat them better than White women and how White women go for "Chads" or "bad boys" in their youth but settle for the men they ignored when they hit the wall and need a provider.
This has been going on for a quite a long time now. I remember an entire forum called "HappierAbroad" that was basically an echo chamber of White men who resented White women for divorces and feminism and complained about them all the time while praising Asian(and other non-White) women. Granted, they'll also praise Eastern European women who are technically White. Also, on Reddit, there's a lot of resentment towards White women from White men as well on subs like r/PurplePillDebate, r/MensRights, r/DatingAdvice, etc.
However, it's spread with Black men too no doubt because of the rise of the Black Manosphere which operates pretty different from the White one(and, unlike the White one, ours isn't a pipeline to the Alt Right).
On the Coli, various podcasts, and some other sites, Black American men are claiming that Black American women are (generally) selfish thots who see themselves as "queens", aren't marriage material, only go for thugs/bad boys/drug dealers in their prime while settling for a provider after they had trains ran on them, don't respect Black men, etc. And you got dudes claiming that White, Hispanic, and Filipino women act more feminine and treat them better in relationships or in general.
Now, I know it's easy to write this all off as "Internet shyt" that doesn't matter in real life but keep in mind that the lines between the Internet and real life have become very blurred due to how perpetually online many "real life" people are due to smartphones. People made the same mistake when it came to QAnon.
Before January 6th, everyone was saying that QAnon was just a niche group of MAGA trolls who didn't exist in real life. Then, January 6th happened and Marjorie Taylor Greene started peddling Q Anon conspiracies more boldly while holding a public office and people realized it was affecting real life.
It's very clear that there's an increasing amount of jaded gender relations between White men and women as well as Black men and women in the West. The origin of it is very subjective and people will come up with different answers.
Why does it matter? Well, with regards to us, it matters because Black America needs to remain culturally and demographically strong in order to help rebuild and sustain our community. Pushing for reparations, better healthcare, better education, better job opportunities, etc. in our communities will happen far less if "divesting" on both sides increases in the future and Black people of both genders choose to empower the communities and agendas of their non-Black partners more than the Black community itself.
However, the White gender war is scarier and much more important. Because of their sense of entitlement, White men can't handled being rejected or having struggles with their own women or any women. While Black men may complain, we don't really lose our minds over it or try to push for radical agendas just because we're not getting p*ssy or getting into the relationship we want.
White men are different though. White men who can't get any are very drawn to fascism and Far Right politics that promises them that (White) men will no longer struggle and to give rights back to (White) men. You see it not only in America but Europe. Nick Fuentes got exposed as an incel. Richard Spencer is an unmarried man. Many of the men who were part of the Charlottesville riot in 2017 were single/sexless. A lot of the Alt Right today is full of single/sexless men. I'm willing to bet that the racist Cac who was part of the Buffalo massacre was single too.
Even Steve Bannon admitted this back in 2019:
www.newsweek.com
And that's the main reason why I'm paying just as close attention to White gender relations as well as Black ones. Poor gender relations in both communities will spell disaster for the Black community for different reasons.
I don't know what the solution is but I'm hoping that the resentment online doesn't increase over the years and "divestment" doesn't become the norm or else we'll be screwed as a community is more ways than we can imagine.
This has been going on for a quite a long time now. I remember an entire forum called "HappierAbroad" that was basically an echo chamber of White men who resented White women for divorces and feminism and complained about them all the time while praising Asian(and other non-White) women. Granted, they'll also praise Eastern European women who are technically White. Also, on Reddit, there's a lot of resentment towards White women from White men as well on subs like r/PurplePillDebate, r/MensRights, r/DatingAdvice, etc.
However, it's spread with Black men too no doubt because of the rise of the Black Manosphere which operates pretty different from the White one(and, unlike the White one, ours isn't a pipeline to the Alt Right).
On the Coli, various podcasts, and some other sites, Black American men are claiming that Black American women are (generally) selfish thots who see themselves as "queens", aren't marriage material, only go for thugs/bad boys/drug dealers in their prime while settling for a provider after they had trains ran on them, don't respect Black men, etc. And you got dudes claiming that White, Hispanic, and Filipino women act more feminine and treat them better in relationships or in general.
Now, I know it's easy to write this all off as "Internet shyt" that doesn't matter in real life but keep in mind that the lines between the Internet and real life have become very blurred due to how perpetually online many "real life" people are due to smartphones. People made the same mistake when it came to QAnon.
Before January 6th, everyone was saying that QAnon was just a niche group of MAGA trolls who didn't exist in real life. Then, January 6th happened and Marjorie Taylor Greene started peddling Q Anon conspiracies more boldly while holding a public office and people realized it was affecting real life.
It's very clear that there's an increasing amount of jaded gender relations between White men and women as well as Black men and women in the West. The origin of it is very subjective and people will come up with different answers.
Why does it matter? Well, with regards to us, it matters because Black America needs to remain culturally and demographically strong in order to help rebuild and sustain our community. Pushing for reparations, better healthcare, better education, better job opportunities, etc. in our communities will happen far less if "divesting" on both sides increases in the future and Black people of both genders choose to empower the communities and agendas of their non-Black partners more than the Black community itself.
However, the White gender war is scarier and much more important. Because of their sense of entitlement, White men can't handled being rejected or having struggles with their own women or any women. While Black men may complain, we don't really lose our minds over it or try to push for radical agendas just because we're not getting p*ssy or getting into the relationship we want.
White men are different though. White men who can't get any are very drawn to fascism and Far Right politics that promises them that (White) men will no longer struggle and to give rights back to (White) men. You see it not only in America but Europe. Nick Fuentes got exposed as an incel. Richard Spencer is an unmarried man. Many of the men who were part of the Charlottesville riot in 2017 were single/sexless. A lot of the Alt Right today is full of single/sexless men. I'm willing to bet that the racist Cac who was part of the Buffalo massacre was single too.
Even Steve Bannon admitted this back in 2019:
Bannon Targeted 'Incels' Because They're 'Easy to Manipulate'—Whistleblower
Christopher Wylie, the Cambridge Analytica whistleblower, described the men as "unmarried straight white dudes who couldn't get laid."
www.newsweek.com
And that's the main reason why I'm paying just as close attention to White gender relations as well as Black ones. Poor gender relations in both communities will spell disaster for the Black community for different reasons.
I don't know what the solution is but I'm hoping that the resentment online doesn't increase over the years and "divestment" doesn't become the norm or else we'll be screwed as a community is more ways than we can imagine.
