Woman crushed by online dating -Asks Reddit Am I Ugly? (PHOTOS)(Update: she joined the coli pg 88)

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Why are you being so defensive. I thought you were referring to her african american heritage. No need for the sass.

Clearly you were lurking, and following the thread. I talk about black women being racist towards other races for dating their men. CRICKETS.
I post and you misunderstand what I'm saying about her being mixed, and myself not being mixed but quick to defend that there are blacks in Venezuela.
You can advocate for interracial relationships when it comes to your bedwenching, but not explain why black women are so defensive of other races dating their men.
 

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Clearly you were lurking, and following the thread. I talk about black women being racist towards other races for dating their men. CRICKETS.
I post and you misunderstand what I'm saying about her being mixed, and myself not being mixed but quick to defend that their are blacks in Venezuela.
You can advocate for interracial relationships when it comes to your bedwenching, but not explain why black women are so defensive of other races dating their men.
Lol...the coli has given you wings I see. I replied with no malice.
 

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Clearly you were lurking, and following the thread. I talk about black women being racist towards other races for dating their men. CRICKETS.
I post and you misunderstand what I'm saying about her being mixed, and myself not being mixed but quick to defend that their are blacks in Venezuela.
You can advocate for interracial relationships when it comes to your bedwenching, but not explain why black women are so defensive of other races dating their men.
You are in the wrong thread to talk about how black women treat you because you date black men. If you are so bold why don't you create a thread in the subject?
 

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There is no response because that is not the subject of the thread. I can respond when and where I want. Bye

Oh was the subject of the thread if Venezuelans are black? Because you responded to that. :camby:
 

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Most black women I know advocate to date white men, but bash other races that date their men.
I've had names thrown at me by black women for dating black men. Once at my boyfriend's house, his aunt met me and remarked to him, "So you couldn't find yourself a sista." It goes both ways.

You do not know me. And I do not know you. We have different life experiences and you see the world from the point of view of a woman who is not black. If a black man finds true love with a non-black woman then he should go forth and be happy. Good for him.

But the majority of black women in the United States are not open to dating/relationships/marriage to non-black men. I have had nasty comments from both black men AND black women about being with a white guy. In college I had a (white Latina) roommate who would not give me messages when certain guys called and told one guy (white Latino) that he shouldn't be dating me. White women can be REALLY nasty when a black woman is dating a white guy whom they consider a "catch". I have had white women step in front of or in between me and my guy to try to flirt (only to be pushed out of the way). I have had white women (associates) get salty when white men compliment my looks or try to talk to me. I have had white women try to talk to/sexually proposition a guy that they know is my boyfriend. Yes, white women get very nasty when they are not having their egos stroked. Same with Latinas and Asians. The are SUPPOSED to be superior in beauty and desirability to black women so any thing that challenges that makes them salty.
 

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Black male coli militants have non-Black females calling Black women bedwenches now? Bravo. Looks like you all's anti-Black woman campaign is really picking up steam :leon:

Reminds me of this
 

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You do not know me. And I do not know you. We have different life experiences and you see the world from the point of view of a woman who is not black. If a black man finds true love with a non-black woman then he should go forth and be happy. Good for him.

But the majority of black women in the United States are not open to dating/relationships/marriage to non-black men. I have had nasty comments from both black men AND black women about being with a white guy. In college I had a (white) roommate who would not give me messages when certain guys called and told one guy that he shouldn't be dating me. White women can be REALLY nasty when a black woman is dating a white guy whom they consider a "catch". I have had white women step in front of or in between me and my guy to try to flirt (only to be pushed out of the way). I have had white women (associates) get salty when white men compliment my looks or try to talk to me. I have had white women try to talk to/sexually proposition a guy that they know is my boyfriend. Yes, white women get very nasty when they are not having their egos stroked.


To each their own, I agree. I don't like black women that will advocate for them to date whomever they want, yet discourage other races from dating their men. I'm sorry you were faced with that kind of adversity. I've dealt with the comments and snickers from groups of black women. I can IMAGINE how catty white women get though.
 
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Clearly you were lurking, and following the thread. I talk about black women being racist towards other races for dating their men. CRICKETS.
I post and you misunderstand what I'm saying about her being mixed, and myself not being mixed but quick to defend that there are blacks in Venezuela.
You can advocate for interracial relationships when it comes to your bedwenching, but not explain why black women are so defensive of other races dating their men.

The ONLY issue that I have with non-black women dating/marrying black men is when these women have the AUDACITY to bash black women....as you just did. So date/marry all of the black men that you vagina can handle but I dare you to talk that bed wench mess to their mothers, sisters, aunts, grandmothers.
 
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