Woman in a marriage she describes as great wants to divorce because at 28 she just doesn't know herself yet. :jackie

[Kornball The Conqueror]

not trying to get caught on the coldplay screen with the work husband

 

[Problematic Pat]

Do the math fellas.


32. Was married for 10 years, which means she got married at 22( probably from the South) She has 3 children.

Your damn frontal lobe isn't even developed until 25. But that's why the statistics for these young marriages aren't good.









This is the reality of telling women to get wifed in their early 20s .

You need 20 year old energy to raise kids. At 40 ain't nobody trying to wake up at random times because the little crotch goblin is waking up crying every 2 hours.

 

[Braman]

As dumb as she sounds I gotta give it a pass….married at 22 is not sustainable in this day n age

It’s scary this can even be a factor, but social media now lets you see shyt you never saw before, shyt that those before us never saw. You can’t miss what you never had. Social media gives women d are crooked much FOMO

 

[Problematic Pat]

Reality gonna smack her hard. The dating scene gets worse the older you get. 32 with 3 kids already that's more electricity, water and food bills for a man to pay. Who the hell wants to sign up for that???

 

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[FlyRy]

Western Woman babble

 

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I would sort of respect this "finding myself" shyt if it was really about broadening your horizons; going back to school, learning an art, devoting yourself to spirituality, moving to another country to start again etc but 9 times out of 10 it means something more cliched and mundane..........she wants some new D. She wants to sample what's out there before menopause hits.

Wish I was wrong but this is human nature without restrictions. I don't believe the solution is putting the clamps on female freedom, we need to adjust our expectations of women. This is who they are, you can fall in love but never be surprised by what is around the corner.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Husband aint dikking her down right. These women want to be dogged out in bed.

This is out dated thinking. Plenty of people who grew up to be successful from single parent or divorced homes.

It’s up to the parents to step up and raise them right if they’re separated. There are a ton of ain’t shyt folks who come from married homes.

Plenty? Ton? That sounds kind of vague. Can you translate that to percentages for us slow people in the back?


What percentage of people from single parent homes are successful?

What percentage of people from married homes are successful?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I haven’t read through the whole thread but I’m gonna say now: she wants to have that hot girl summer she missed out on marrying young. I hope her husband doesn’t take her back when the streets run through her.

Like I already said, the husband aint dogging her out and smacking that ass.

With that said, can she be judged? Would the naysayers stay in a relationship with a fat ugly wife?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Do the math fellas.


32. Was married for 10 years, which means she got married at 22( probably from the South) She has 3 children.

Your damn frontal lobe isn't even developed until 25. But that's why the statistics for these young marriages aren't good.









This is the reality of telling women to get wifed in their early 20s .

So marry a woman when she's burned out at 32?

I'll take my chances going young.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

She actually doesn't.

The dude missed the part where she said "she can't be herself around her husband"...that's a huge red flag. That means her relationship has no real intimacy(and no,not talking about sex)which is a huge deal for women(or any functioning relationship).



I know yall gone say "What about the kids??"

We'll you'd be suprised how many women love their children but tell their childless friends not to have them. The woman is usually doing the brunt of running the house and managing the children.

She doesn't have shyt but responsibilities
Most white women wait until the kids are in college to divorce but I guess she said fukk that

So tell us,

what does it mean she cant be herself? What does it mean when a woman says that?

You said its not sex, then what is it?

 

[coldcall]

Society has made life too easy for modern women. She's going to get alimony, child support and everything else you can imagine plus some new outside dikk which is what she's ultimately craving.

 

[Diondon]

That street dikk callin

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

She wants to put that thang in the streets.

We all know what it is.

She wants street meat.

church...ISM!

 

[Panther]

Actually you do miss out on a lot when you decide to put yourself in restrictive situations.

Your probably talking about sex but there is way more to life that could be explored.

My BF got married straight outta high school and is still married. That was 20+ years ago.

In that time she has had 3 kids, gotten huge, suffered severe depression and had a serious shopping addiction to the point she was hiding purchases from her husband. That's it. She even has the same friends from HS.

In the same amount of time, I got BBA, lived in 3 states, did a tiny bit of traveling, made tons of friends, got 2 different professional certifications, opened several business, have 4 different careers and then learned and currently run a multi-million dollar business.

She literally hit me up last week and told me she was jealous that I went out and experienced life and that I don't have wrinkles. I have never once envied her life. She is in one of the many couples I know that have made realize that I never want to be married.

Marriage doesn't stop a person from doing any of those things...

Yall gotta stop being silly, plenty of married folks continue their education, open businesses and travel