Women and their emotions...

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So I knew I always avoided casual sex....but I could never pinpoint specifically why...I just knew it was not for me...but now I realize one of the main reasons is because I could never separate my emotions when it came to sex...

I heard of women doing it but I wonder how do they do it? I am not saying I necessarily fell in love with a man after sex...but I do notice my feelings change towards them in a positive manner...and now I am wondering has sex clouded my judgment as far as who I have been in relationships with. I mean you really do not get a good idea of who you are dealing with until you have been with them for a year imo...but outside of losing my virginity I never waited that long I usually wait a few months and by then the emotional attachment is already there...

I know women that claim they know how to have sex with a man and not give two fukcs about them afterwards...but I wonder is it even possible I really do not see how...I do not like it though...it kinda makes me feel weak...which is why I know I could not handle casual sex cause I would probably be bitter if a man hit and never called me back:manny:

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So I knew I always avoided casual sex....but I could never pinpoint specifically why...I just knew it was not for me...but now I realize one of the main reasons is because I could never separate my emotions when it came to sex...

I heard of women doing it but I wonder how do they do it? I am not saying I necessarily fell in love with a man after sex...but I do notice my feelings change towards them in a positive manner...and now I am wondering has sex clouded my judgment as far as who I have been in relationships with. I mean you really do not get a good idea of who you are dealing with until you have been with them for a year imo...but outside of losing my virginity I never waited that long I usually wait a few months and by then the emotional attachment is already there...

I know women that claim they know how to have sex with a man and not give two fukcs about them afterwards...but I wonder is it even possible I really do not see how...I do not like it though...it kinda makes me feel weak...which is why I know I could not handle casual sex cause I would probably be bitter if a man hit and never called me back:manny:

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that's the way women are. to your subconscious, once you have sex with a man he's impregnated you. the mind doesn't give a fukk whether you used protection or even like him all that much. that's just how your biology works. so yeah, once a dude smashes, your feelings will change. i use this to my advantage - try to get sex out of the way first because then girls start acting way different and i can manage/control the relationship to my liking.

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it's harder for women cause women are built different. it's not impossible but i'd say most women are going against their natural instincts when they attempt it.
 
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