So I knew I always avoided casual sex....but I could never pinpoint specifically why...I just knew it was not for me...but now I realize one of the main reasons is because I could never separate my emotions when it came to sex...
I heard of women doing it but I wonder how do they do it? I am not saying I necessarily fell in love with a man after sex...but I do notice my feelings change towards them in a positive manner...and now I am wondering has sex clouded my judgment as far as who I have been in relationships with. I mean you really do not get a good idea of who you are dealing with until you have been with them for a year imo...but outside of losing my virginity I never waited that long I usually wait a few months and by then the emotional attachment is already there...
I know women that claim they know how to have sex with a man and not give two fukcs about them afterwards...but I wonder is it even possible I really do not see how...I do not like it though...it kinda makes me feel weak...which is why I know I could not handle casual sex cause I would probably be bitter if a man hit and never called me back

I heard of women doing it but I wonder how do they do it? I am not saying I necessarily fell in love with a man after sex...but I do notice my feelings change towards them in a positive manner...and now I am wondering has sex clouded my judgment as far as who I have been in relationships with. I mean you really do not get a good idea of who you are dealing with until you have been with them for a year imo...but outside of losing my virginity I never waited that long I usually wait a few months and by then the emotional attachment is already there...
I know women that claim they know how to have sex with a man and not give two fukcs about them afterwards...but I wonder is it even possible I really do not see how...I do not like it though...it kinda makes me feel weak...which is why I know I could not handle casual sex cause I would probably be bitter if a man hit and never called me back

