
about you and build on that, like accessories like jewelry, a special kind of sunglasses that fits your face, cologne that makes women go
I’ll use myself as an example.
I go out alone because it’s easier to pull back to my spot. Now I could pull with my guys, but there’s other factors that go into pulling women in groups. (Chemistry, looks, etc) so if someone if your squad is the weak link, you all look like weak links. There’s nothing you can do to change that.
Side bar: I’m in a new city, so I’m literally organizing all of my contacts like a soccer team, figuring out who can score, who’s a defender, who’s a wing, etc. (If I have to go out in a group it’ll be a group of 4 max), but 2 is preferred.
So when it comes to a herd mentality and social proof, they need to see it equally amongst all of you. Cause it’s only takes one of the girls to say “no” for all of them to fall back (depending on if she’s the leader).
Now if you’re alone, it’s easier because they only have to base these things on YOU. Depending on interest, if it’s higher you get the number vs the IG which is (I need to see more, you don’t quite do it for me). But you can always leverage the IG if you know what you’re doing.
And this where you build your social proof, travel pics are the easiest way to do this, investing in a woman who does “influencer” photography and make your gram look clean as possible. If you have “verified” ppl followed you like celebs, you can actually use it to your advantage.
“Oh shyt Champagepapi follows you” now they’re hooked
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In Taxi Driver I think Travis Bickle says they(women) are like a union
That's a interesting phenomenon. I have a hard time believing women throw primal attraction aside, in favor of social currency. I've seen, and been involved with women who routinely 'step out' on their "socially approved" partners. I know peer pressure got most women in a chokehold, but I don't think it can persuade or dissuade their sexual attraction to a man.I just read a comment on an old AMS vid about this where a woman said she wasn’t attracted to her husband when they first started dating, but her aunts kept raving about how handsome he was and it made her more attracted to him
"primal" attraction can absolutely be manipulated by media to at least small degreeThat's a interesting phenomenon. I have a hard time believing women throw primal attraction aside, in favor of social currency. I've seen, and been involved with women who routinely 'step out' on their "socially approved" partners. I know peer pressure got most women in a chokehold, but I don't think it can persuade or dissuade their sexual attraction to a man.
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y it gotta be like this?
I just read a comment on an old AMS vid about this where a woman said she wasn’t attracted to her husband when they first started dating, but her aunts kept raving about how handsome he was and it made her more attracted to him
I’ll use myself as an example.
I go out alone because it’s easier to pull back to my spot. Now I could pull with my guys, but there’s other factors that go into pulling women in groups. (Chemistry, looks, etc) so if someone if your squad is the weak link, you all look like weak links. There’s nothing you can do to change that.
Side bar: I’m in a new city, so I’m literally organizing all of my contacts like a soccer team, figuring out who can score, who’s a defender, who’s a wing, etc. (If I have to go out in a group it’ll be a group of 4 max), but 2 is preferred.
So when it comes to a herd mentality and social proof, they need to see it equally amongst all of you. Cause it’s only takes one of the girls to say “no” for all of them to fall back (depending on if she’s the leader).
Now if you’re alone, it’s easier because they only have to base these things on YOU. Depending on interest, if it’s higher you get the number vs the IG which is (I need to see more, you don’t quite do it for me). But you can always leverage the IG if you know what you’re doing.
And this where you build your social proof, travel pics are the easiest way to do this, investing in a woman who does “influencer” photography and make your gram look clean as possible. If you have “verified” ppl followed you like celebs, you can actually use it to your advantage.
“Oh shyt Champagepapi follows you” now they’re hooked
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