Women that weren't raised to Value a Security and Stability in Marriage and Family, isn't to be Married. #THOU SHALL BE BUSHED

[Stuntone]

Tell tell sign is, she's been in serious relationships with unstable, shiftless men. One short stint with a unstable man might get a pass, but if a woman complains about her ex moving in with her and never paying any bills. Not having a job. She wasn't raised right or to be a wife.

Isn't exactly their fault.. A lot of women have been raised to seek Security and Stability in their Careers and then Seek a Man in Marriage. Ass Backwards. A lot of these women are 30-40 by time they start seeking a stable man (husband). The Independent Woman Ideology has really sent women out here lost in the wilderness. They're in a new city, alone chasing a career.

Smart women find their husband in their early 20s. She doesn't want to be independent she understands that a husband provides a lot in terms of security and stability. Smarter women find a good man to ride with in their early 20s while he's just building. These smart women usually have a way to push that man farther. Or they grab an older man that's already established.

Another major problem for finally Established Career Women, their 30+ and want an already Established man. Most Successful Establish Men in their 30s are Married or Players. The Players are usually new to the money and female attention after being treating like scrubs from High School to 30+. They not ready to settle down. And when they do, they want to mid 20s girl that values security and stability.

 

[Stuntone]

Hard truth. Medicine for our community.

 

[SNG]

nikka how you responding to your own posts.

Also not every nikka wants the same things in a marriage some nikkaz want more of a partnership and can do without gender roles and being a support system for each other. I think for us black folks we have to understand what we come from and we compare our dynamics to other races. The black woman has been in unstability ever since being released off the slave ship and the forefront of the family this shyt has been hardwired and passed on for decades. The only way to fix this is for black men to fully understand this and for her to let their guard down. Now you want to say oh the treat white men with respect and that maybe because they already see them as superior subconsciously. A white man was the first idea of thought of what stability is for black women sadly.

 

[Henri Christophe]

she's been in serious relationships with unstable, shiftless men.

another thing we gotta factor in.... and I do have sympathy for some of them due to this reason.

what if a woman simply doesnt have access to the upper crust of black men?

successful black men have incredibly high standards and incredibly low patience.

one mistake and she's gone..... sometimes the unstable man is the only man available.......

 

[rabbid]

you can tell yourself whatever you want.. there's women that listened to this logic, did everything you described in their 20s, stayed down with that man, and are filing divorce papers right now or getting cheated on. Contemplating suicide over a glass of red wine because they let society put them on a path.

 

[LadyJ2]

another thing we gotta factor in.... and I do have sympathy for some of them due to this reason.

what if a woman simply doesnt have access to the upper crust of black men?

successful black men have incredibly high standards and incredibly low patience.

one mistake and she's gone..... sometimes the unstable man is the only man available.......

This is why parents, mothers especially, have to pay attention to their kids’ grades starting early.

If your daughter is of average or below average intelligence she is highly unlikely to be in the same circles as men who are marriage material.

If she is scholarly even if she isn’t very pretty her peers will be smart and the men will be of higher quality.