Women who play that "Damsel in distress" is a complete turnoff

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I can see a woman afraid of a bumblebee or afraid of heights shyt like that. I knew a woman that freaked out about facial hair . Not the unkempt shyt just any stuble,mustache she would freak out. Imo the root cause of most of these damsel in distress type women, are their exes or some sort of abuse from male family members . Tuese women are triggered .
 

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There’s a middle ground here. Too independent comes off a way, but damsel in distress is problematic too.

I always think, in a worst case scenario I might really need to depend on this woman for something and what help will she be to me then? I would imagine a chick who can’t do anything for herself or gets anxiety about every damn thing won’t be too helpful in an emergency situation when it really counts.

Just purely thinking about survival, I would be weary about being with a girl like that.
 

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OP you're a fool; you struck gold and don't even know it. her scary ass locked in the house all day cut off from outside :noah:


pop in monday-thursday from the hours of 2am-5am cause you so busy working 10 jobs you don't have :myman:


swear my rep should be way hire on this MF all the gems I drop on here for free 99
 

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That shyt is cute to me..... I dont mind the damsel energy

A damsel tends to gravitate to men who are patriarchs.

A damsel prefers men who are MEN.

She can be the damsel & I can be the king of the castle like nature intended.
I like it too

But I don’t choose based on energy

Does she look good?

Is she emotionally balanced and sane?

They’re my basic considerations.
 

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Idk. Most women can't drive and would prefer not to as often as possible. You could easily get in with that scenario and try to help her get better but if she don't want to try to learn then what happens with y'all after is entirely up to you
 

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Coli fam how come women view the term of “pick Me” as a negative. I have made it known that I prefer women with pick me energy as those are the ones I choose to pick. If you don’t want to be picked why be negative towards the women who do?
A woman “pick me” is the equivalent of a male “simp”. So it’s basically the same reason that men call other men simps. Just in reverse.
 
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That shyt is cute to me..... I dont mind the damsel energy

A damsel tends to gravitate to men who are patriarchs.

A damsel prefers men who are MEN.

She can be the damsel & I can be the king of the castle like nature intended.




Thiiissss.


I'm sick of these "independent don't need a man hoes". Give me the damsel who needs me - as God intended.
 

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she get nervous around homeless people & start moving like she having cramps. had to pull her to the side and ask her to act normal at the salvation army.

had me feeling like whitney houston like this cant be the love i deserve. I just want a girl that acts normal and within the reasonable range of human emotion. So i feel you op.
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Patrice use to talk about this RIP


Also the "Damsel in Distress act" is a move used by covert narcissistic women.

If you the type of guy that needs external validation for your manhood. These micromanipulators will chew you a new one. Cuz you're an easy target. And these "Damsels" will have you continually doing shyt to get her to justify and validate your manhood.

Yes, a friend of mine has this whole damsel in distress act she does. She physically makes herself look smaller by pulling in her neck and raising her shoulders to look up at you. She widens her eyes like puss in boots and speaks in this high-pitch, whiney, baby voice when she wants something. She’s hugely manipulative, self centred and self absorbed but ppl get sucked into it as she uses them till they figure it out for themselves and abandon her. Chinese women do the same thing, suck you in with this demure act before revealing who they really are.

Y’all can fall for that bullshyt if you like.
 

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Yes, a friend of mine has this whole damsel in distress act she does. She physically makes herself look smaller by pulling in her neck and raising her shoulders to look up at you. She widens her eyes like puss in boots and speaks in this high-pitch, whiney, baby voice when she wants something. She’s hugely manipulative, self centred and self absorbed but ppl get sucked into it as she uses them till they figure it out for themselves and abandon her. Chinese women do the same thing, suck you in with this demure act before revealing who they really are.

Y’all can fall for that bullshyt if you like
Lol I ain’t even mad at em. There’s a demand for what they supplying :pachaha:
 
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