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[The Nigerian]

A lot of Black women are not trained on how to hold down a real man. They didn't grow up with examples of this in their life so they don't know how.

Many Black women don't know how to do something like stroke a man's ego. Many other even think this is a BAD thing. They don't know how to whisper positive shyt in your ear. They don't know how to give compliments. They do know how to fight and argue though. Many Black women seem to live for that sh!t. I was in a relationship with a BW who loved nothing more than to fight and argue and had ZERO clue how to give compliments and say nice things.

Too many Black women grew up with some variation of "Ya daddy ain't sh!t," being drilled into their heads and it colors their interactions with men.

Mind you, none of this shyt applies when dealing with white men. Black women know how to act right in their presence. They'll go into customer service mode for Brad. Sweet talking and genuflecting, acting like debutants. I've witnessed this firsthand.

 

[DreadBrown]

You make the shyt sound too scientific bro they're women not petri dishes. Wtf is a high level black woman?

 

[godkiller]

A lot of Black women are not trained on how to hold down a real man. They didn't grow up with examples of this in their life so they don't know how.

Many Black women don't know how to do something like stroke a man's ego. Many other even think this is a BAD thing. They don't know how to whisper positive shyt in your ear. They don't know how to give compliments. They do know how to fight and argue though. Many Black women seem to live for that sh!t. I was in a relationship with a BW who loved nothing more than to fight and argue and had ZERO clue how to give compliments and say nice things.

Too many Black women grew up with some variation of "Ya daddy ain't sh!t," being drilled into their heads and it colors their interactions with men.

Mind you, none of this shyt applies when dealing with white men. Black women know how to act right in their presence. They'll go into customer service mode for Brad. Sweet talking and genuflecting, acting like debutants. I've witnessed this firsthand.

Yup, I've noticed this too. Black women are on their best flight attendant behavior when a non-black men are around, but when some (average) black men show up the act disappears like it never existed. Then it's all suspicion, cold eyes and real talk. I feel like I'm climbing a mountain with some black women when I should be climbing a hill. I'm still trying to understand it. Might be you need to increase your attractive, @TheNigerian

 

[The Nigerian]

Yup, I've noticed this too. Black women are on their best flight attendant behavior when a non-black men are around, but when some (average) black men show up the act disappears like it never existed. Then it's all suspicion, cold eyes and real talk. I feel like I'm climbing a mountain with some black women when I should be climbing a hill. I'm still trying to understand it.

Man, when I see that shyt I just let them roll with Mike, Brad and Steve. Life is too short for that headache.