Would y'all date an average girl, if

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If everything about her was on point as far as what you are looking for in a long term relationship?

Meaning she's God fearing, submissive, (somewhat) successful, not out all the time etc. The only drawback is you aren't going to bed fantasizing what she looks like naked:leostare:

I'm in a spot like this now, where I'm dealing with an average chick and I think the grass may be greener somewhere else:francis:

I don't even go for IG thots. Ideally I'd get with someone with natural beauty like Aaliyah, brandy, or Monica. But as of now that ain't happening so I'm stuck with this decision:mjcry:
 

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Quiet as it's kept that is most of the people on here love.

Average to you might be a dime to the next man... take that with you.

You should explore a relationship with the "average" woman. Because she just might be what you need and not what you want. Sometimes people are placed in your life for a reason. But don't take too much of her time deciding on what to do...


Just because the grass looks greener on the other side just means it's more manure on the lawn.
 
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If your woman doesn't excite you sexually move on. You will be frustrated and cheat or resent her.

Id fukk. I dont have a problem getting the draws.

Its just with women in the past there was ALWAYS something about them (fat ass, titties, nice lips) that made me want them more. I havent found that with this current girl. Which made me say she was "average". Besides that she seems cool:yeshrug:

I just always thought id get with a chick who looked like a 90's RnB singer, then life happened:mjcry:

But really i dont want to toss a good girl to the bushes because im trippen that she doesnt have a bubble booty
 

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There is a difference between her having to look like an R&B singer and her not being attractive to you.

If she doesn't do it for you based on the off reality of TV, movies, Insta then yeah you need to have a reality check.

If on a base level she's just meh than its not going to work long term.
Id fukk. I dont have a problem getting the draws.

Its just with women in the past there was ALWAYS something about them (fat ass, titties, nice lips) that made me want them more. I havent found that with this current girl. Which made me say she was "average". Besides that she seems cool:yeshrug:

I just always thought id get with a chick who looked like a 90's RnB singer, then life happened:mjcry:

But really i dont want to toss a good girl to the bushes because im trippen that she doesnt have a bubble booty
 

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If everything about her was on point as far as what you are looking for in a long term relationship?

Meaning she's God fearing, submissive, (somewhat) successful, not out all the time etc. The only drawback is you aren't going to bed fantasizing what she looks like naked:leostare:

I'm in a spot like this now, where I'm dealing with an average chick and I think the grass may be greener somewhere else:francis:

I don't even go for IG thots. Ideally I'd get with someone with natural beauty like Aaliyah, brandy, or Monica. But as of now that ain't happening so I'm stuck with this decision:mjcry:
I date nothing but average chicks breh. Nothing wrong with that. But the bold is why I never keep them around for a long time. My eyes always wandering. My heart always wants someone better. If I get married my wife gonna have to be damn near a dimepiece im afraid because I won't make it brehs :francis::mjcry:
 

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I date nothing but average chicks breh.
The same can be said for the average person. I think OP has a rather skewed perception of average. It also seems to be the case that he wants a woman who is physically above-average but has personality traits that could be considered above-average, with respect to physical level of attractiveness.
 
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