Would you be ok Taking a Dating SAT Test for a shorty?

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I don't mind, and even kind of aspire to, efficiency, even if it comes off cold. I made a joke once about relationships/dating and using like the indictment federal format for that. Like a charging document to end a relationship.

I think a lot of this is about the gamification of the dating process (and life in general) through tech and social media/phones.

To me, the thrill or interest in dating is meeting different types of people, with differences and common ground in our lives. I don't want to check boxes, but I also look at is as a process, not a means to an end, to "find someone". For people who are looking to "find the one", this is a technique to avoid "wasting time", wheras to me, the "wasted time" is all I really want.

I will say there has to be some sort of ego factor to people who are probably HIGHLY overvaluing their time, even a date the way I would ask someone to, somewhere stylish and classy, looking at like 90 minutes to 2 hours, tends to run long, and we have fun. These people don't make $600 an hour, in almost all cases. But the burn out from dating apps, I can understand, though I do not engage.

This not much different than Hinge questions.
 

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These questions are easy to answer, there's not really much here to trick a smart dude up.

Is this broad (or any broad?) worth the effort?

The answer to that is ALWAYS NO.

Any chick that makes you wait for sex, puts you through hoops to even date, IS NOT WORTH IT.

Chicks that play obvious games like this, are birds. Whether or not you want to deal with bird brains is up to you. Sometimes real G's will do this to get the P and bounce.

Any chick that does this has ALREADY been run through and is trying to stop the damage. Expect to find some born again virgins in this crowd. Voluntary Celibate. All type of pre-conditions they mention up front - that don't really mean much in a week or 2.

And even with all this ground work - This very same broad will take some D from some random she met at her slam poetry night or the bar at the hot restaurant when she's out with her girls being "independent".

For the dude that does finish this easy quiz, this will probably be just the start of exam week (more like semester). It's not like she's gonna lay down flat if you ace the exam. You gotta switch the game up.
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I had to learn this the hard way. Best case scenario of waiting a chick out is getting the ass. Worst case is wasting days/weeks and for some desperate guys months and not getting the ass. I’d rather cut bait sooner rather than later.
 

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Ya'll some miserable ass dudes :pachaha:


For the most part, those are typical first date "get to know you" type questions.

And if she decides to not to proceed with the date, then you've just saved yourself a Saturday evening and some money.

Yes, I would take that test.
 

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Ya'll some miserable ass dudes :pachaha:


For the most part, those are typical first date "get to know you" type questions.

And if she decides to not to proceed with the date, then you've just saved yourself a Saturday evening and some money.

Yes, I would take that test.
Ew. :scust:


This is what's wrong with the world. If you give an inch, then they will take a mile. All you doing is gassing up their egos.


Don't be surprised when there are 4 women at your next coffee date trying to give you a panel interview to meet the main woman like she's a job at google :mjlol:
 

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Ew. :scust:


This is what's wrong with the world. If you give an inch, then they will take a mile. All you doing is gassing up their egos.


Don't be surprised when there are 4 women at your next coffee date trying to give you a panel interview to meet the main woman like she's a job at google :mjlol:
Did you see the questions though?

The only one I thought might be egregious was about describing your financial situation. Perhaps that question can wait till you get to know the person.

Everything else was basic shyt
"What's your top 3 series?"
"Do you want kids one day?"
"What's your star sign?"
"Who pays on the first date?"
"Name an album with no-skips"

These are complete low-ball type questions


It's not like they're asking about your conflict resolution style or what your solution is to world hunger. :mjlol:


And really man, I get the power dynamics in relationships because they're real but I would never feel the need to stamp my authority on something as trivial as this. Not everything is a fight for control and there are much more subtle ways you can go about ensuring you're respected.
 

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A Ugandan lawyer breh already tried it, disguised as a woman so he could write his girls bar exam :pachaha:
Got caught fast..

No colibreh is pulling this off :mjlol:

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