Would you be upset if you found out a woman settled for you because she couldn't get commitment from

Mirin4rmfar

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the guys she truly wanted. Due to women having vaginas, women are able to fk out of their income bracket, have sex with out of their league, even big berthas are out there getting more dikk than Big Mike who can't even get a broad to look at him. Eventually women want commitment and a lot of times they can't get it from the dudes out of their league so it eventually levels off. Would you be upset if she settled for you?

Personally, I would feel slighted. I don't ever want to be the man a woman settled for. She may let you be with her but her loyalty and heart is somewhere else. I believe this is why women initiate divorces so much.
 

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Technically we all settle, man or woman. No one gets exactly what they want. A person telling you they settled for you is most likely verbally abusive or has the traits of being verbally abusive.
 

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Commitment is the male vagina

Don't give it away cheaply.

Secondly difference between settling and not being someone's first.

If your not someone's first, well then when markell her first love messages her on Facebook after 7 years of fallen off the face off the earth, that little seed starts to grow again.

Nah I'm number 1 she opening that markell message in front of me and not even entertaining that ish

Nikkaz got a girl that views him as nbdl status if a better deal euro league NBA comes along well :sas2:.


Nikkaz giving commitment to a girl that views him as a 8.50 a hour job, while she getting her PhD


Nah I'm the NBA, I'm friggin number 1 and I'll never settle for a broad who doesn't view me as numero uno
 

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Every man and woman who desires a serious relationship should want their partner to like their appearance, personality and to be their first choice. To answer the question, yes I would be upset with it. I would rather be single for the rest of my life than be settled for. That's desperate and weak.
 

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You should never be someone's second option, because the moment their first option comes into their life they may give it a chance. If a man likes women that are 5'7" and up, but got with me even though I am 5'2" I wouldn't mind. Now if he still loves/really likes a woman, but wants to be with me since he can not have me I wouldn't give him the time of the day.
 

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I couldn't imo. If other option that they wanted comes back into the picture, that will cause trouble. Me & shorty would have to want each other equally. An old g once told me, "find a woman who loves you, more than you love her." But I'm not to sure I agree with that sentiment totally.
 

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If a woman tells you she settled then she's not someone you should be committing to. That's just dirty and disrespectful, don't be surprise if she cheats on you too.

If you have good judgement then you should be able to tell if a girl is genuinely into you when spending time together.
 

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the guys she truly wanted. Due to women having vaginas, women are able to fk out of their income bracket, have sex with out of their league, even big berthas are out there getting more dikk than Big Mike who can't even get a broad to look at him. Eventually women want commitment and a lot of times they can't get it from the dudes out of their league so it eventually levels off. Would you be upset if she settled for you?

Personally, I would feel slighted. I don't ever want to be the man a woman settled for. She may let you be with her but her loyalty and heart is somewhere else. I believe this is why women initiate divorces so much.


I know two women happily married right now that would leave their husbands is a second if I asked....smh


the minute you think someones out of your league youve already lost........ doesnt matter how broke , ugly you are SHE SHOULD BE HAPPY TO BE WITH YOU....
 
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