Would you have your first child at 45?

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Man, I’m 41 going on 42 in Jan and my daughter is set to be born on New Year’s Day. I felt a way about it years ago, but my wife and I tried this for like 5 years, this ish ain’t easy for everybody!


I’m happy as a pig in ish to be honest. Idc how “old” I am, we finally got what we wanted! So ima embrace it all :manny:
 

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32, no kids. Probably never gonna have kids tbh.

After Trump, the pandemic and Trump again, I’m not even sure I wanna bring a child in this world.

Not only that, but…. the quality of women out here… the masculine “city girl” borderline ratchet personality is like an epidemic in the South. Almost every brehette in my age range has this personality type and it’s very unattractive to a square breh like myself.

As much as I joke around with the #pawgset thing on this site, I have no desire to procreate with a non-black woman. If I can’t find my Lisa Turtle or Ashley Banks, I’d rather not have kids at all
 

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An only child raised by 45 year old parents would have no choice but to be exceptional, unless they’re both retarded as hell.
 

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Man, I’m 41 going on 42 in Jan and my daughter is set to be born on New Year’s Day. I felt a way about it years ago, but my wife and I tried this for like 5 years, this ish ain’t easy for everybody!


I’m happy as a pig in ish to be honest. Idc how “old” I am, we finally got what we wanted! So ima embrace it all :manny:
Congrats - enjoy that period of them being 1-10 after that hormones play a massive part it will be like living with two wives in the house
 

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Probably not. At 36 I'm tired as fukk after a long day out with my kids. 10 years from now I couldn't see myself wanting to go practice sports. Imagine when ur kid turns 10 and ur 55,no way ur going to want to match the energy level of a kid.
 

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nah, that's a bit late. no knock to anyone situation

im 43 and passed on that life, but if we did it would have been in the 33-35 range. better financial stability, just a better quality of life
 

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Thirty five when I had my first, if I don’t have another in the next few years (I won’t but also didn’t see him coming so you never know) it’s a wrap

Thinking about waking up in the middle of the night, changing diapers at 45 is making me pre-tired
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People and their rules, I guess a population full of mentally and physically unhealthy people would have this discussion
 

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Furthermore alot of people had kids in old age as the youngest of the batch, oldest son 25 while youngest is 5 or 8.
 

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im pushing it im about to have my daughter this year and im 39 and I wish I did it earlier but whatever. It didn’t even take long to get my wife pregnant once she gave me the clear not to pullout and shoot the club up. I was pull out gang with her 4 years prior.
 
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