Would you let your daughter have a sleepover with her friend who is from a single dad household?

Would you allow your daughter to sleep over at a single dads house?

  • Yes- not all men are predators

    Votes: 17 32.7%
  • No- not without another woman there

    Votes: 35 67.3%

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Caca-faat

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The problem is, we have no idea how many of those kids were molested back then. Maybe it was far less, maybe far more. Rose tinted glasses.
Way more than u think. If u were in a room with 10 Women and asked who has been sexually assaulted or molested they would probably all put their hands up. If you asked how many of them had been molested as a child it may be 7 out of 10.

With men the numbers are different when they are adults but if they think about it a lot of stuff happened to them that shouldn’t have when they were kids.
What man what to have a bunch of young girls screaming and yelling in your house especially when sports or a good movie is on

This nikka need help
He’s a single dad who doesn’t want to have his child miss out on an experience. What’s wrong with being emotionally in tune with your child? This kind of thing does harm in another way where children seek love and affection and emotional understanding from others because their parents are emotionally distant.
Not even their grandfather? :lupe:

Or Uncle?
Children are more likely to get molested by someone they already know and trust that includes grandpa and uncle
 

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I laugh when men get angry to women for saying men are predators because men think they're predators too. See comments as references.


I was also sexually assaulted by women as a child, but men are the problem.
I completely agree with you It’s clear where the problem lies. Don’t worry the coli will return to its bytches ain’t shyt, don’t simp for women, women are the problem bla bla rhetoric very soon.
 

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My wife and I have already decided that our daughter isn’t going to any sleepovers. Staying with cousins or family friends is a different story but going to any sleepovers from school friends is out of the question.

Yeah we had the talk with our daughter.

I asked her does she want her daddy in prison...because I will go animal crazy and not spare ANYONE should anything happen to her.

And it just so happens she believes me.

I've walked in the middle of her dance class and got her teacher right. Her mother, my wife almost met her ending for tapping her. My 120lb Doberman got yoked up like a breh for playing to rough.

I showed her that clip where some kids poured boiling water on another child at a sleepover. And asked her wtf she think I would've done...
 
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I have two daughters. Unfortunately, sleepovers are a no go. You can do it when you’re 18.
:manny:
It’s wild because some of my fondest memories were sleep overs with the neighbors and cousins.
:francis:
You look up the sexual abuse stats and you will see why our generation is more protective of our children. Hell something like 30% of women have been molested/abused and of the 30%, what number is by “family” or people they know.
:gucci:
Sometimes the risk isn’t worth the “reward” of spending the night at your friend’s house. They can spend the evening and get dropped off.
:ufdup:
It’s been happened . I had sleepovers in middle school in my friends basement and i definitely remember watching Pam and Tommy sex tape , eyes wide shut and a friends dads porno dvd in middle school . We snuck in girls that wanted to hook up and get fingered in the 6th/7th grade. My kids will NEVER
 

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Yeah we had the talk with our daughter.

I asked her does she want her daddy in prison...because I will go animal crazy and not spare ANYONE should anything happen to her.

And it just so happens she believes me.

I've walked in the middle of her dance class and got her teacher right. Her mother, my wife almost met her ending for tapping her. My 120lb Doberman got yoked up like a breh for playing to rough.

I showed her that clip where some kids poured boiling water on another child at a sleepover. And asked her wtf she think I would've done...
Whilst this is protective don’t over do it as if she believes something is her fault cos that’s how these manipulators operate she won’t tell u then that protectivity back fires.
 

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Having that community sounds great, I mostly experienced that in the countryside when visiting my grandparents never in the city.

Exactly

The men would just manipulate the child into thinking it was their fault and the child wouldn’t tell u out of shame. You probably wouldn’t know till long after the incident happened. That’s how they operate. Sometimes it’s out of your control as a parent. It’s not always obvious when it happens.

Also if your child doesn’t like an adult male or female do not have them around that person. Sometimes things happen right under your nose even with ppl you know and trust. Pedos are master manipulators of children, start gas lighting them to break down their instinctive barriers and plant seeds in their head to normalise predatory behaviour.
So my 16 year old daughter is an idiot who isn’t able to not only remove herself from the situation and call an Uber, but also call me to address the situation according to you, random guy on the internet who doesn’t know her?

You sound creepy and weird.

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Whilst this is protective don’t over do it as if she believes something is her fault cos that’s how these manipulators operate she won’t tell u then that protectivity back fires.

I may be wrong but I let her know she can NEVER get in trouble with me. She's never been spanked and I've only yelled at her maybe twice in her 13 years.

She tells me everything...
 

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It’s been happened . I had sleepovers in middle school in my friends basement and i definitely remember watching Pam and Tommy sex tape , eyes wide shut and a friends dads porno dvd in middle school . We snuck in girls that wanted to hook up and get fingered in the 6th/7th grade. My kids will NEVER
So many of our formative experiences good and bad happened at sleepovers.
 
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