Would you put out your son for selling drugs or your daughter for dropping out and getting pregnant?

[Ozymandeas]

My family mad at my aunt and uncle. Not necessarily about the son but moreso about the daughter. It’s just adding to it. The son has been in and out of jail, kept selling drugs and eventually had people trying to break into their house for his “work” so my aunt and uncle put him out. But now they just put out the youngest daughter too. They mad she got pregnant and dropped out of college, and was leaving her kid with them for days while she went off with her friends. So they put her out too. But she was 19 The son got put out a couple of years back when he was 20ish.

For what it’s worth, the oldest daughter is normal. College degree. Office job. No kids yet. And on her own.

I haven’t decided if it’s foul or not yet

 

[old pig]

the son? yes…for potentially putting the family at risk

the daughter? no…putting a pregnant young woman out on the street just for being pregnant is ignorant

*edit*

just read the rest…didn’t realize she had the kid already and was ditching the kid to hang out and shyt…that’s a fukked up family…no words

 

[13473]

your family sounds like a madea play



if i'm in that position i am
1. moving. preferably to a place my kids don't know anyone & it's safer to live there. i'd pay for my son some job training. if he does the same stuff after being in a better environment with job opportunities, then he's getting kicked out. he's a danger to myself, my spouse & grandchild who could get shot if someone came kicking down the door behind his drugs.

2. tell daughter if she does not find something productive (school, work) to account for her whereabouts while she's missing then i'm calling cps for child abandonment & getting custody. if she agrees to go back to school, i will agree to watch the child for free while she studies & attends classes + 1 weekend day. if she goes to work, i'll agree to babysit for a small hourly fee that will go up if she's late returning to the child.

 

[dizzy4111]

Son can get the fukk on

Don't think I could bring myself to kick a young mother out on the streets

 

[tater]

I don't think it's fukked up. She's clearly not taking responsibility for her actions and she dropped out of school. For what? What is her plan? To leave her kids with her parents? She's an adult, time to start acting like one. No words for the drug dealing son, he also deserves to be on the street. Having people break into their house? Not even debatable, goodbye.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

man, My aunt went though this with my female cousin

She went to college, automatically accepted (as a 3rd Generation legacy student), and got pregnant the 1st semester and had to drop out smh.
now she aint doing shyt but working at Captain D's smh


oh well.

 

[Coolin']

DIS-FUNK-SHUN

 

[Son Goku]

Confirmed your auntie and unc ain't shyt as parents (not as people ).

A 0.333 batting average might work in the majors but not in parenting.

With that said, nah, they're not wrong. The son definitely ain't shyt, finna have them on one of them crime shows cause he can't find an honest job? fukk him .


The daughter? Yeah, she either woulda had to put that lil b*stard up for adoption and gone back to college or she's getting put out on her ass too. This ain't a free daycare for you to hang out with your friends doing bird shyt.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Confirmed your auntie and unc ain't shyt as parents (not as people ).

A 0.333 batting average might work in the majors but not in parenting.

With that said, nah, they're not wrong. The son definitely ain't shyt, finna have them on one of them crime shows cause he can't find an honest job? fukk him .


The daughter? Yeah, she either woulda had to put that lil b*stard up for adoption and gone back to college or she's getting put out on her ass too. This ain't a free daycare for you to hang out with your friends doing bird shyt.

The first daughter turned out well so it might not be all the parents' fault. Some people are going to fukk up regardless of upbringing. They're definitely looking funny in the light though.

 

[Son Goku]

They first daughter turned out well so it might not be all the parents' fault. Some people are going to fukk up regardless of upbringing. They definitely looking funny in the light though.

That's why they're batting .333 and not .000.

Even if the first kid turned out okay, that could be in spite of the parents and not because of them.


Either way, I'm not supporting bum-ass drug dealers or bird-ass single mothers in my house when I should be enjoying my retirement years.



Both them kids getting kicked out the house and then I'm moving and not leaving a forwarding address.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Both kids doing bullshyt? Nowhere else to look other than the parents!