Would you stay with your wife if she gained 50-60 lbs after pregnancy?

[The Radiant One]

Lets say she just has had one kid and she is too worn out from child care to workout and the weight will most likely not come off. Will you stay in the marriage or will you have a side girl. I say this because a friend of mine is going through this he is a Quantitative analysts and makes about 175k a year in Atl.

Note that she isn't interested in losing the weight the only way she will realistically lose the weight is if you leave her.

 

[levitate]

Of course.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Lost me at weight won't come off

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Depends if she's receptive to losing all of it and If she's a ride or die chick.

And there's no such thing as worn from child care and not being able to work out. You got construction workers that still hit the gym afterwards.

 

[At30wecashout]

Lets say she just has had one kid and she is too worn out from child care to workout and the weight will most likely not come off. Will you stay in the marriage or will you have a side girl. I say this because a friend of mine is going through this he is a Quantitative analysts and makes about 175k a year in Atl.

Note that she isn't interested in losing the weight the only way she will realistically lose the weight is if you leave her.

This is the most important part. I can probably stay with but she is never seeing my dikk again.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

Hell yeah now you just havin fat sex

 

[RhodyRum]

Y'all nikkas are HELLA pathetic.

Talk half the day about Black Love this and that, Black family needing strengthening this and that, Black Queens and Kings this and that...

Then the other half of the day trying to validate destructive ass behavior within the Black family structure (or just family structure in general) with ya disingenuous, primitive brain having, non intellectual asses.

It's too obvious that a lot of dudes here are gonna fit comfortably into that "Daddy went out for milk and never came back home" stereotype at some point in y'all lives. It's inevitable given the mindsets far too often demonstrated in these threads.

And people wanna bash the "Talented 10th" theory. Y'all go outta y'all way to prove Du Bois correct on the daily!

 

[Turbulent]

Yes but it sounds depressing

 

[Estarossa]

I wouldn’t leave but she would prolly leave me because I would be blunt as shyt. If you have no interest in at least trying to look good I have no interest in being intimate with you…

 

[desjardins]

Depends how much she weighed before the baby
One of my cousin BM literally doubled in size went from like 140lb to damn near 300lbs. Looked like a different person, you never know how that shyt going go

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Yes. And I would definitely mention it, and encourage her to eat healthy, and workout.

 

[Mike Nasty]

If she wasn't in the gym before, chances are she not going after.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yes I’m committed to her

That’s my wife wtf

 

[Ziggiy]

I’d want her to lose the weight for the simple fact that being upwards of SEVENTY POUNDS overweight will lead her to serious medical complications down the line. Diabetes, hyperextension, heart disease. These aren’t maladies to sniff at and i’d encourage her to work out and lose weight not just for me, but for the sake of the kids too. Hell she bore them, wouldn’t she want to do everything in her power to stay alive and healthy as long as possible to see them grow and prosper?

Also i’d make sure to try to provide an adequate space for her to lose the weight. One of those all in one work out machines isn’t THAT expensive, and we could eat healthy together and all that type of stuff. We could work out together and be each other’s accountability partners.

Now if she’s too lazy to do ANY of that after i’ve made time and space and put all my cards on the table, then we probably are in for a harder conversation

 

[Diondon]

Of course, she gained it blessing me with a seed
We going to the gym, doe