I had this same exact shyt play out about a month ago, except it was with the baby moms.
We actually broke it off in '08.Right after my son was born, she railroaded into some insane postpartum shyt.She all of a sudden became materialistic as hell.One day, out of the blue, she came up to me on some "if we don't get a new Dodge Charger, I'm going to get real depressed"
.At that time, i was driving a fairly decent '03 Explorer and only making 14 dollars a hour at my old job.Not only that, but she wasn't working.She was basically playing the stay at home wife, but that postpartum brought the worst out of her.She started blaming me for everything and "wanting to go out with her friends".All of a sudden, she turned into a head strong, hot head.She'd go out with her friends and wouldn't get back home until the early AM's.In her mind, she deserved to act that way because she had just had a baby and needed to "find herself" again.At that point, the writing was already on the wall for me.shyt became so awkward, the tension so thick, I knew I had to bust out.During that time, she went and got my name tatted on her leg.I saw it a as saying "I know you're a good dude, but i gots to go"
Crazy shyt about it, she suggested that we go back to using condoms because she didn't want to get pregnant again.It didn't really matter to me.I was mentally/emotionally out of it.When we did fukk, all the chemistry disappeared because of the awkward emotions.
We eventually split and she moved in with one of her GF's and started partying a lot.She had my son all over the place, so i decided to step in and pull him out of that shyt.She actually left my son, only about 3 months old, at one of her friends house while she went out to do whatever it is she was doing.Her friends house was THE SPOT.It was like a club within itself.When I called her up, she tried to lie and tell me she left him at her moms house, but she didn't know i had already checked with her mom and her moms told me he wasn't there.I called her back and called her all kinds of bytches and ho's and she confessed that she left him at her friends spot.I went over there and snatched him up.I've basically had full custody since.
In the 4 year period since our break up, she had 4 different BF's....even had a daughter with one of them.According to her, he was a "psycho" and started beating her ass.For some reason, she would always hide the truth from me.It was some kind of twisted pride shyt.Like she didn't want me to feel I was a better man then any of the dudes she fukked with after me.The dude that was beating her ass didn't have a job, he was living off her.After that, it was a few random dudes who didn't stick around that long.Her last BF who she just broke up with in April of this year, was some kind of major marijuana supplier.They actually had a nice condo and everything.55 inch 3D tv...he was paying her car note...rent...everything.He was a Jamaican immigrant, so he couldn't put anything in his name.Like I said, she was kinda living it up with him, but that drug dealing shyt is nothing to build a foundation on.He eventually ditched her ass.In his words, she was nothing but a unappreciative/ungrateful/crazy bytch.He told me she started going out and coming home late.....same shyt she pulled with me.Dude packed his shyt and was out.After that, she hit rock bottom again.Ironically, Jamaican dude got gaffled by the FEDS only a month later.I always wondered if she dropped a dime on him out of spite
And that's where we are now.About a month ago, she sent me a text telling me she's been thinking about me and how she matured since she had to take care of her daughter...etc...etc .She found her a new spot and became her dads caretaker(he's a Vietnam vet) and seemed to be on some humble shyt, but even then, I remained skeptical of her ass.She made this big dinner and invited me and my son over.When I got there, she acting super lovey dovey.Practically begging me to give her a second chance.I just straight up told her, "I'm not the man for the job" and was about to bounce, but the she hopped in my car and wouldn't let me drive off.We had a long 2 hour talk right there in my car.She told me she'd been masturbating to my pics and asked me if I wanted to have sex........I fukked up.....I fukked her
and ended up spending the night.
When I woke up in the morning, she was in the bathroom and my son walked into her room.He had her phone and was playing with it like a toy.When he crawled up next to me, I saw her call log pop up......I saw that she had a call from somebody listed as "my baby".....even more bugged out, the call came in at 7:50 pm......I got to her house at 8pm that same night.She had just got off the phone with another dude right before I walked in
Long story short, I asked her about it and she told me he was just some military dude she'd went on a few dates with, but wasn't nothing serious.She asked me if I wanted her to call him and break it off with him right then and there, but I just told her I don't give a shyt what you do.I jumped out the bed, got dressed, and kicked rocks.I haven't really communicated with her since.Now she spends most of her days logged into some bottom of the barrel dating site.Just imagine myspace mixed with POF....I won't say which one, but it's low grade.fukk her
and he accepted her, prolly was happy as fukk
but i aint let it get to me. i was messing with a thick rican chick.
