WWYD: Married Man Cheats On Wife And Gets Mistress Pregnant

[Sharp]

Taken from another group I'm a part of....

A married man of 10+ years with children has an affair with another woman and she gets pregnant. The wife finds out and is very angry. The other woman decides to have the baby. The wife tells the husband, either you disown the baby or we're getting a divorce. The husband makes well over $100k a year a year and will be obligated to pay alimony,child support, and give up the house if he gets divorced based on state divorce laws. What should the husband do?

 

[HookersandIceCream]

Should have used better protection

 

[DerrtySouthpaw]

one female or the other is getting thrown to the bushes....

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Not having a mistress makes that problem obsolete. You play the game, you lose, no sympathy will be felt from friends. Only for your family that you've crushed and flattened with your selfishly demonic behavior.

Its so demonic, friends.

 

[Why-Fi]

im not disowning my kid.

 

[Heelish]

 

[Joe Chink]

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

He can't really disown the kid. He will get hit with child support either way

 

[malbaker86]

He's fried either way. I'd have to just start over and take that divorce L. No way should somebody disown their own child

 

[Raw Lyrics]

It's so....

 

[kevm3]

The husband needs to just prepare to take that L unless he is just some unbelievably skilled dude with the mouthpiece he can talk her into forgiving him. But really, he needs to take care of his child, even if that means his wife leaving. He messed up with his cheating, so he needs to stand up and own up to his actions and handle the repercussions.

 

[DemureNatural]

He's fried either way. I'd have to just start over and take that divorce L. No way should somebody disown their own child

Honestly, the wife is demonic for asking him to disown his child! What (real) woman could be with a man who willingly disowned his child (especially at the behest of another female )

 

[DemureNatural]

It's so....

Ann Coulter though?

 

[dabestkeptsecret]

The only way i see him getting out of this without losing his kids, house and most of his money; he would have to share that girl.
- he'd have to hire some playboy type dude to holler at his wife and when they bout to smash the husband "catches them in the act" and takes pics of the whole thing. That way he can guilt his wife to not get the divorce, or if she preceeds with it, he'll have proof that she was doing dirt too and wouldnt lose as much if anything.

 

[kevm3]

All he can really do is put it on the line for his wife. Just let her know
babygirl look I messed up, but I'm a man. As much as I love you, there is no way I can disown my own flesh and blood. I'd like to stay with you, but it's up to you to find it in your heart whether you forgive me or not and attempt to make it work.

In situations like that, all you can do is drop the real and let the cards fall where they may