Best advice I can give you:
1. Don’t improve your life with the sole intention of finding a partner. Women shouldn’t be your main motivation for self improvement. You should want to do better for yourself first and foremost.
2. When you organically progress in life, your circle will grow but you will also cull deadwood. Don’t be afraid to cut off those who aren’t beneficial to your growth.
3. Having a “roster” is overrated. Take it from someone who has been there. The amount of risks that are involved is not worth it: STDs, pregnancy scares, psycho women, ex-bfs/baby daddy’s who can’t let go.
4. Having one quality woman>>>>> a bunch of hoes. Believe me. Don’t envy guys who brag about smashing 5 women every other week. It’s an empty vacuous life. Nothing to admire or aspire to.
5. Be content with solitude. Having your happiness and dependence on one person is akin to putting all your money into one stock: if that crashes, so does your whole life.
I love my fiancée but I value having my own time. And she respects that. I was by myself before so I’m used to my own company. I don’t see my relationship as an accomplishment but rather as an accessory to my happiness.