You ever been catfished?

Swirv

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I was on a dating site and came across a beautiful model type chick, except she was slim thick. Chic said she was an investment banker and we she had great conversation. Not gonna lie I developed feelings for her. The woman had beauty, brains, and bank :noah:

When I asked her when we could meet up she said she had a secret…..I thought the worse of course. She didn’t keep me in suspense too long but she said that she wasn’t the women in the pics. She sent me her real photo and I was so disappointed. Lady was 100 pounds heavier with a receding hairline, not to mention she was broke:snoop:

Chic even had the nerve to start giving me an attitude after she revealed her true self and I voiced my displeasure. I just charged her to the game.
 

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Hispanic or white tryna pretend?
Hispanic though if she wanted to, she could have passed for white. I blame myself. The signs were there (her parents and so on) but I ignored them and made up excuses in my head because she was 💯 % :noah: . She was so good, I wasn't even mad at the deception, just glad that was the only thing she lied about. :dame: :whew:
 

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Hispanic though if she wanted to, she could have passed for white. I blame myself. The signs were there (her parents and so on) but I ignored them and made up excuses in my head because she was 💯 % :noah: . She was so good, I wasn't even mad at the deception, just glad that was the only thing she lied about. :dame: :whew:
So she was the girl in the pictures, but told u she was black when she wasn't?
 

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So she was the girl in the pictures, but told u she was black when she wasn't?
It's kind of crazy but here goes:
She led me to believe that she was mixed (part black/white - she pretty much said this and talked about her "black roots" from time to time too) when she really wasn't (she was more or less white). She basically pulled a Rachel Dolezal. When I met her parents (briefly), her dad was black and her mother white/hispanic, and her younger brother looking mixed (I only met him once much later on since he lived in another state).

Everything seemed fine at first. :ehh:

Turns out, however, the black guy that I thought was her biological father was just her stepdad (she never mentioned that). The younger brother was actually his biological son...from a previous relationship (she never mentioned that either). The girl I was dating was actually the guy's step-daughter, biological daughter of the white/hispanic mother I mentioned earlier.....that she had with a whole ass white guy in a previous relationship (her actual father). I found out by accident when talking to the younger brother and he commented on visiting his biological mother and talked about the divorce his dad went through. He then talked about his step-mom and how great it was for both families to come together and all that. Had me like :what: then :wtf: then :ohhh: then :snoop: on some "that explains a lot :beli: " .

It was all very embarrassing. It all could have been avoided if someone mentioned the divorce but it somehow collectively slipped everyone's mind until much later. :martin:
 
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does it matter if you not trying to smash or anything?

i be using the apps when i'm out of town and want a tour guide or someone local to chill with. i don't use it locally or to date so perhaps im wrong for that lol.

but one dude i met had his athlete/gym pics on profile. and he was already heavy in the pic but buff so i choose him or whatever cuz football dudes are usually a good dumbed down time, respectfully, which is perfect for oot vibes.

but then i met him and he was clearly like... not in playing shape... and mind you he was already thicc in playing shape, but at least buff lol.

didn't matter in the end, i would have been his friend regardless :yeshrug: but he caught an attitude because he clearly trying to smash so that was the end of that chapter :yeshrug:
 
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