You ever started off with side-chick expectation for a girl and then end up really liking her?

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I met this what I thought was very young girl at the rec, shooting basketball with your young nephew. Turns out she was 26, I was reluctant to talk to her bcuz I thought she may have been in high school. Anyway I end up getting her number. We chat and then I invited her over. I had her parking in a neighborhood, bcuz I didn't no one to see her car parked in my driveway. She would come over on her lunch break and after work, bringing me daiquiris and food. Really cool. On Friday nights, she would come over, I'd leave her, go to the club and come back drunk at 3am and smash. Never bought her anything or took her anywhere, kind of treated her bad. As time went on, I realized this chick is sexy, cute, doesn't ask for anything, just likes kicking it with me.

All of a sudden I realized, like Tyrone Davis - I had it all the time. All the things I was looking for in the clubs and streets, I already had at home. :snoop:


Shortly afterwards, she ends up moving to Dallas. :mjcry: She would still come holla at me when she visited, but it's not the same.


She's the only women Ive ever ate out from the back with purpose. :banderas:



Now i got the blues. ....
 

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Yep. It happens more often then brehs want to admit.

Think about it, sometimes you’re more honest and open with the person you’re cheating with combine that with sex, venting about life/main chick pillow talking it’s easy to “fall” into an emotional situation.

Now and days I don’t even consider a side situation if I’m in a relationship. Too much risk, plus it’s dishonest. I'd rather stay single if I want variety that much.
 

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This is the culprit. That and sitting there drunk listening to 90s R&B simp jams cos you slipped on your pimpin.
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You only liked her because there were no expectations on either of your part

She didn't expect shyt from you outside of a vibe and vice versa
 

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Now another brother gets to stab stroke her until tears roll down her cheek & cum drips down to the sheets...you hate to see it :francis:
 

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My current girl is that. I might wife or leave we will see
 

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This sounds more like a jump off or FWB than a side chick. Sometimes I fall for them but usually I got a rotation so can't say I ever missed one that fell back
A real side chick situation , for her to even get to that point I have to be willing to risk my relationship. Basically she has to be gf material in case shyt go left
 

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It happens all the time. It's a gift and a curse to be very charming. The woman always catches feelings. Wish I could turn my charm off but I don't know how :francis:
 

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The fact that you only realized all of this after she left probably means you’re romanticizing the past. You’ll find someone that will make you forget her.

Have I ever wanted a side chick to evolve into a better situation for her?

:jbhmm:

No.

:sas1:

The fact that she allowed me to put her into side chick status tells me she’s got some issues I don’t want to help her fix. Besides that, she’ll never fully trust you because you already showed her your sneaky breh playbook.
 
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