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most likely his biological parents are looking at him like a fukkin free meal. they're gonna get into some shyt...ask him for money...and he's going to guilt trip his adoptive parents into giving him the money.
Man you're right on the money, unfortunately............
 

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Man you're right on the money, unfortunately............

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fukk!!!
 

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You are right. I'm just waiting on it. I'm really waiting on these broke nikkas to start asking him for money. I hate it would have to be him tho, I cut ties with another cousin earlier this year over some fukk shyt. It's like you want to love these people but my other cousin tried to hit me up for bail money after he got arrested for stealing.....He KNOWS where I'm at and then had to nerve to pop shyt, saying I'm not helping him......Ties cut.
Right decision. And if you do let him back in, make it on a VERY limited basis.
 

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Right decision. And if you do let him back in, make it on a VERY limited basis.

The whole convo was stupid as fukk. The nikka had the nerve to call me right before he got arrested, "I just stole some liq from the store". I'm in Japan, he is in Flint, MI....(Time zone shyt was already crazy) but he was askin for bail money..then GAS money. "Wire it to me man!"... :stopitslime: That happened about five months ago and I'm still not talking to him.
 

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You are right. I'm just waiting on it. I'm really waiting on these broke nikkas to start asking him for money. I hate it would have to be him tho, I cut ties with another cousin earlier this year over some fukk shyt. It's like you want to love these people but my other cousin tried to hit me up for bail money after he got arrested for stealing.....He KNOWS where I'm at and then had to nerve to pop shyt, saying I'm not helping him......Ties cut.
Tell him to ask them the hard questions. Why you do it? Where yall been? Was halls life better off without me then it would have been with me? And how many others are there?

He'll get hit with some doses of reality and be eatin dinner with yall Thursday at Applebee's talkin bout "i was wildin out and I'm sorry. We're still goin dutch tho cause these drinks ain't cheap."
 

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Listen.

I'm adopted, but I was taken from my birth mother due to abuse. So I can see where this kid is coming from. You can say they raised him, ect ect. But I guarantee he has never felt the bond he has felt with his birth parents, as he does now. That shyt is a daily process of what ifs, and questions. He feels hurt, lied to and let down. And it's probably overwhelming to him, wishing he had that bond all his life. But yes, he is acting a little over board and disrespectful. I'm sure it will all blow over, and everything will balance out.
 

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Listen.

I'm adopted, but I was taken from my birth mother due to abuse. So I can see where this kid is coming from. You can say they raised him, ect ect. But I guarantee he has never felt the bond he has felt with his birth parents, as he does now. That shyt is a daily process of what ifs, and questions. He feels hurt, lied to and let down. And it's probably overwhelming to him, wishing he had that bond all his life. But yes, he is acting a little over board and disrespectful. I'm sure it will all blow over, and everything will balance out.

I'll give it time...I'm gonna have to put him on block for a bit tho...lol
 

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Honestly, you have to be there for him. Don't smother but be there. This kid feels betrayed, I know the feeling. It's the worst feeling in the world, wondering why the person who gave you life, walked out. It'll sink in.
 
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