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I was at a college party last week and I was really out of it, I had just got some bullshyt as news and all around I hate the college atmosphere (which is why I recently stopped going); but my friends had told me to come out to get my mind off of it.
Chilling in the party against the wall, not even interested in females or what's going on around me. My nikka KC grabs a girl by the pants and drags her over to start dancing, she looks back to see how he looks first then starts dancing on him. KC being a real nikka then grabs her friend and drags her over to me to cheer me up, she does the same thing, looks back to see how I look, then starts dancing.
I never really thought about how rude and jarring it must feel to physically grab a girl to make her dance with you, but that's the way things go in parties (especially black parties/clubs) from ages 13-28. The girl on me let me put my hands in her shirt, grab her ass and all types of shyt; KC girl did the same then later gave him the phone number and let him fukk. For years most black boys/men get condition to come at women aggressively/persistent if you want them, with black girls/women cosigning/rewarding this behavior. Now those same black women get older and jump on the bandwagon of villainizing black men for being aggressively or persistent with approaching women, going as far as saying we're part of a rape culture.
And like I mentioned earlier, even after the disrespectful act of grabbing a female to get her to dance, most females will look back first to see how you look. If she doesn't find you attractive you'll get the
or 
If she finds you attractive you'll get the
regardless of the fact you just rudely grabbed her, which kinda supports the whole "It's only harassment if they don't find you attractive" idea.
I watch that video of the white girl walking through Harlem for the first time today and read comments about how the dudes were harrassing, bullying, threatening, supporting rape culture; but anybody who live around black people know that was mostly just a bunch of dudes "shooting their shot" hoping for a positive response. Like I said it doesn't surprised me that white people would do that because they're always misinterpreting and villainizing black males; but if fukked up to see the same black women that know they've thrown that ass and possibly fukked a dude because he rudely grabbed them in the party when "Back Dat Ass Up" came on. It's fukked up man.
Chilling in the party against the wall, not even interested in females or what's going on around me. My nikka KC grabs a girl by the pants and drags her over to start dancing, she looks back to see how he looks first then starts dancing on him. KC being a real nikka then grabs her friend and drags her over to me to cheer me up, she does the same thing, looks back to see how I look, then starts dancing.
I never really thought about how rude and jarring it must feel to physically grab a girl to make her dance with you, but that's the way things go in parties (especially black parties/clubs) from ages 13-28. The girl on me let me put my hands in her shirt, grab her ass and all types of shyt; KC girl did the same then later gave him the phone number and let him fukk. For years most black boys/men get condition to come at women aggressively/persistent if you want them, with black girls/women cosigning/rewarding this behavior. Now those same black women get older and jump on the bandwagon of villainizing black men for being aggressively or persistent with approaching women, going as far as saying we're part of a rape culture.
And like I mentioned earlier, even after the disrespectful act of grabbing a female to get her to dance, most females will look back first to see how you look. If she doesn't find you attractive you'll get the
or If she finds you attractive you'll get the
regardless of the fact you just rudely grabbed her, which kinda supports the whole "It's only harassment if they don't find you attractive" idea.I watch that video of the white girl walking through Harlem for the first time today and read comments about how the dudes were harrassing, bullying, threatening, supporting rape culture; but anybody who live around black people know that was mostly just a bunch of dudes "shooting their shot" hoping for a positive response. Like I said it doesn't surprised me that white people would do that because they're always misinterpreting and villainizing black males; but if fukked up to see the same black women that know they've thrown that ass and possibly fukked a dude because he rudely grabbed them in the party when "Back Dat Ass Up" came on. It's fukked up man.
