When dealing with women, often times we get too comfortable. A girl is seemingly feeling us, we are feeling them; thus, we are inclined to not want to rush things. "She came over and we vibed really well. She even gave me head and/or let me suck her titty. No need to rush, i'll hit next time." Sounds reasonable right? Wrong. And I'm only saying this off experience. The reason is because dealing with women is like playing a game of whacamole.
Opportunities that arise with women are like when moles pop their head out of the holes of a game.
They pop up, but for a limited, unknown, arbitrary period of time and you have to hit it before it goes back down. The reason is that if it goes down you never know when its going to come back up. Thus, unless another mole has popped up worth more points you must hit the mole available at the time to maximize your points. When it goes back down, all you can do is focus your attention on other moles that might popup instead though. Why? Because 1) If you focus your attention on the mole that just went down you're going to miss opportunities with other women and it might be to no avail. 2) If you try and force the mole to come up (shake the machine per se) you might end up breaking it (chasing the girl away).
You did the responsible thing though. You didnt have condoms and for that reason shouldn't have smashed. On top of that, it isn't like you can be out here raping women. I say all this to say keep it moving and focus your attn on other women at the time. That girl will present herself eventually. And if she doesn't, you will not have wasted any resources or dignity trying to get at her.
