You married a white woman

[Ronnie Lott]

Like Ive said before, these folks are goofy. They claim they constantly harp on black women here because they are "helping the community by telling the truth". There are like 4 black women here Are these guys on FB calling black women out on their ratchetness? What do they do once they sign off?

They claim to be helping the community, but get angry + defensive when you start to "help" the other half of the community (which happens to include them). Then when you say 'how come yall dont ever talk about dudes', its nothing but excuses and lies. "Dawg we talk about dudes all the time" "Society talks about dudes enough" "Dudes already know how they are fukkin up so we dont have to talk about it" etc.

And its not *some* black women. Tommy, @ChrisB., @marcuz, they never make that distinction. Tommy + ChrisB. have even gone out of their way to say ALL black women. So like I said before, lets not play coy and innocent like its all harmless, balanced, constructive discussion with the intentions of uplifting. Its divisive, deflective and inflammatory. I guarantee none of these dudes talk this shyt in the presence of the women they criticize here.

Again, u kind of danced around many of my points and questions.

 

[marcuz]

It shows that you have the capacity to understand the scope of the problem.

What you do is equivalent to someone saying shyt like "man black men need to stop committing felonies". Meanwhile only 7% of black men are felons. If you don't take the time to show you understand the scope of the problem it makes you look stupid and emotional. Not saying you are... but combined with your persistence, thats how you come off

you hear that type of stuff online all the time

"black men need to stop commiting crimes","black men need to take care of their kids"

you know why it doesn't bother me? cus i dont fit the description.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Not at all. I put my response in context. You are reading this exchange in a vacuum. If you need me to explain it more simply, fine.

Why is it not ok to criticize the behaviors of black women? I think that EVERYBODY is fair game to get their azz roasted and called out (black men, mexiacan men, mexican women, gay people, Jews,midgets etc) U get my point. How is it that u feel that men who point out negative behavior are somehow NOT men?

Like I said, criticising black women is fine, if you are giving everyone the same level of scrutiny. They're not. I said that.

I think that the individuals on this site that take issue with many black women aren't complaining about black women that they attract. I think that they are commenting and formulating an opinion based on their observations of some black women. How is it wrong to simply speak on those type of black women?

Its wrong because they don't make any kind of distinction or qualifications. You said "certain" black women. For cats like ChrisB and Tommy Sotomayor there is no distinction, and when you call them on it they get angry. I said that too.

Again, nobody is infallable, everybody should be subject to criticism, right?

Sure, which begs the question, why don't these guys have any heat for black men?

 

[Mowgli]

Why is it not ok to criticize the behaviors of black women?

Like I said, criticising black women is fine.

Sure, which begs the question, why don't these guys have any heat for black men?

Wow he married to a cac criticising black women and now he hatin on the brothas? Stop tommin my dude. shyts disgusting. You dont have to throw your people under the bus because you married to a white woman.

I bet she tells you you different from the other, blacks.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Wow he married to a cac criticising black women and now he hatin on the brothas? Stop tommin my dude. shyts disgusting. You dont have to throw your people under the bus because you married to a white woman.

I bet she tells you you different from the other, blacks.

That you took that my wife criticizes black women from that post doesn't say anything but you lack reading comp skills.

And its funny that you get at me for marrying a white woman.... is your wife black? Or is that just Mr Somebody's wife and not yours

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

you hear that type of stuff online all the time

"black men need to stop commiting crimes","black men need to take care of their kids"

you know it doesn't bother me? cus i dont fit the description.

Bill O'Reilly stereotyping black people doesn't make it OK for you to do too

 

[marcuz]

Bill O'Reilly stereotyping black people doesn't make it OK for you to do to

:what2:

 

[Mowgli]

That you took that my wife criticizes black women from that post doesn't say anything but you lack reading comp skills.

And its funny that you get at me for marrying a white woman.... is your wife black? Or is that just Mr Somebody's wife and not yours

You and your wife talkin about what the black community needs to do.


My wife is not black but you know what, she aint white. Marrying a white woman is like marrying the devil. Sad, it had to be you.

 

[Ms~Opinionated]

I can break it down pretty quickly.


As for me, I am good w/black women. A lot of my good friends are black women. Some of my black exes were at my wedding in Mexico... and we all chill regularly. This is a testament to how good friends we are to this day, and to the quality of women I date.

These brays can make personal snipes and try to shame me, but at the end of the day they are the ones w/lingering issues with black women. I'm just doing me... I have no beef with anybody, except people who choose to be hateful/stupid

Again, I dated a lot of black women, very few (<10%) were ratchet. None of them claimed to be "mixed". TO THIS DAY, none have kids out of wedlock, and the ones who do have kids are married. These are not rich broads either, we all grew up in Jamaica Queens. So if the fukkery Tommy mentioned is a recurring theme for you with the black women you date, its not that black women are fukked up, its that you only have access to low quality women. And that goes for anybody, any race.

There are plenty of strong independent black women out here...what is so appealing about the white woman that made you put a ring on it?

Chris B asked my question. Since less than 10% of your black ex-girlfriends were ratchet, what was it about them that wasn't marriage material?

I consider black girls in Queens to be of decent to good quality, but nothing beats Atlanta as far as quality black women. Maybe my question should be what was so exceptional about your wife that you decided to spend the rest of your life with her?

This is for research purposes. I love love stories so take your time and don't be ashamed. Love is a beautiful thing. For example, did she make you feel special, etc. What was it that made you ready to make the commitment with her that you couldn't with the others?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Chris B asked my question. Since less than 10% of your black ex-girlfriends were ratchet, what was it about them that wasn't marriage material?

I consider black girls in Queens to be of decent to good quality, but nothing beats Atlanta as far as quality black women. Maybe my question should be what was so exceptional about your wife that you decided to spend the rest of your life with her?

This is for research purposes. I love love stories so take your time and don't be ashamed. Love is a beautiful thing. For example, did she make you feel special, etc. What was it that made you ready to make the commitment with her that you couldn't with the others?

We just clicked. A big thing that sealed the deal for me was I got into a pretty serious accident early on in the relationship. I was fukked up in the game. She would have had good reasons to bounce. But she stuck with me and held me down. We had been through a lot. It was that loyalty, our general chemistry and just me feeling like it was the time. It's been a good 5 and a half years.

 

[Ms~Opinionated]

We just clicked. A big thing that sealed the deal for me was I got into a pretty serious accident early on in the relationship. I was fukked up in the game. She would have had good reasons to bounce. But she stuck with me and held me down. We had been through a lot. It was that loyalty, our general chemistry and just me feeling like it was the time. It's been a good 5 and a half years.

Thank you.

 

[ChiefQueen]

This is stupid.