CreepyMcCreeperson
Veteran
Let’s say you meet a woman on an app (don’t recommend) or in person. You call her, talk for about a week, she seems cool, you ask her on a date. I don’t care what kind of date it is, coffee, dinner, mini golf etc. You agree to meet each other there, because she doesn’t know you, and doesn’t want you picking her up at home yet. You get there first. All of a sudden, you hear some clanking around, and see her pulling up in this. What’s going on in your head?
Are we:
A) Not taking her seriously off rip, and placing her in the only good for smashing, and she’s paying for half this date, but she doesn’t know it yet category
B) You’ll take her seriously if she has a stellar personality, and seems cool
C) Giving her the benefit of the doubt this is all she can afford, and she’s getting on her feet
D) RED FLAG proceed with caution
E) Know right away this will go nowhere, but pay anyway to be nice, then ghost
F) Date if she’s cool, but if she asks for anything extravagant, or expects you to provide a certain lifestyle, remind her of the car she drives
Now let’s get more nuance. Are we giving her leeway if she’s very attractive?