In these times where women hate staying inside and love men taking them on new adventures and checking out new restaurants (stuff to post on IG) usually on your dime. I'm done with that. First off, I feel like doing couple activities with new people is a setup to crash and burn. I'm 40 and OG status. And since I go on a lot of date, i'm not trying to spend money on duds. The first meet, I might buy drinks, if she's fine drinks and dinner. If the 1st date goes well and we're vibing, she's fine, I'll will invite her out again., but for average cool chicks. I'm hitting her with the
"You want to come over for some wine and good conversation?"
If she declines or suggest something else. I ghost her or I tell her "mht, mht, find somebody else to do it"
After getting ghosted, they usually come back asking what happened. I tell them, I thought we had a good vibe and convo, i just want to talk to you with out all the outside noise. Usually they agree, and say "oh ok, that's cool, we can do that."
A lot of these girls are cool with it from the jump. Especially sinse it's winter. Seems a lot of guys don't run them smooth direct lines on women anymore. A lot of fronting, half stepping and beating around the bush nowadays. Just giving you young buck some game.
"You want to come over for some wine and good conversation?"
If she declines or suggest something else. I ghost her or I tell her "mht, mht, find somebody else to do it"
After getting ghosted, they usually come back asking what happened. I tell them, I thought we had a good vibe and convo, i just want to talk to you with out all the outside noise. Usually they agree, and say "oh ok, that's cool, we can do that."
A lot of these girls are cool with it from the jump. Especially sinse it's winter. Seems a lot of guys don't run them smooth direct lines on women anymore. A lot of fronting, half stepping and beating around the bush nowadays. Just giving you young buck some game.
"...Haven't been turned down yet.
