Young men in the friendzone... a question..

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When you realize the girl you like isn't into you and just want to be friends why don't you leave? I mean unless you also want to be friends? But why suffer anguish if you want two different things? Is there a reason you stay? What are you hoping will happen?
Are you afraid people will call you an a$$hole for leaving?
 
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Friendzone shyt is for nikkas 21 and under, once you an adult you're an a$$hole for putting yourself in that situation. If she don't fukk with you and you dont wanna be friends then on to the next one :camby:

I will say this though, it's nice to have female friends, I know some girls that are straight :scust: that I just got to be friends with and they're probably some of the most loyal friends I've ever had. I don't know if just being friends works with girls you wanna fukk but having female friends is fire
 
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I have friends now who I thought I was trying to be with when I was younger. But I wasn't putting out the I'm trying be in your guts energy. It's an easy adjustment once you realize that it's your responsibility to present yourself as a starter and you ain't taking no bench roles
 
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Peter Parker said:
Friendzone shyt is for nikkas 21 and under, once you an adult you're an a$$hole for putting yourself in that situation. If she don't fukk with you and you dont wanna be friends then on to the next one :camby:

I will say this though, it's nice to have female friends, I know some girls that are straight :scust: that I just got to be friends with and they're probably some of the most loyal friends I've ever had. I don't know if just being friends works with girls you wanna fukk but having female friends is fire
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It can be cool to have female friends but the single ones get on my nerves. I mean you get to observe how women move as they tell you about the dudes they're sleeping with and getting with, but a lot of the time they be emotional wrecks and they just want to talk about their love life over and over again and you know what they should do, they know what they should do, but they would rather complain. Then their reasoning is most times illogical cause it's emotion driven. They been getting on my nerves lately
 
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Most guys that fall into that mindset are young and haven't hit their stride yet.

They see something they want and think that shyt is like in the movies and they can just get the girl through attrition and will, but women don't operate like that.

There is a certain finesse you have to learn, and you also have to know when to walk away from a situation to preserve your time, peace of mind, and face.

Women typically know off rip exactly what they want from you. They don't mind any man stroking their ego and giving them time and attention while some other man that she really likes comes and strokes her p*ssy when she gets done using the poor sap in the friends zone and sends him on his way.
 
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