Young men looking to get married should avoid girls from single parent families

[Off the Onion]

You really need somebody who understands what it's like to be in a normal family. A family where the man and the woman have taken on normal roles.


Their is a level of stability and respect that keeps the family unit cohesive. You don't need someone to come from a home where everything is lopsided and there is a real lack of stability period this tends to be the case in single parent homes.

Most of the time in these households there tends to be a lack of respect for men and a level of hostility toward men because they never had to live with one. Especially one who has never had a man as head of the house or a leadership role.

Of course not always but most of the time. So you're looking to get married look for a young woman from a stable two parent family.

 

[RTF]

I’m certain th Coli is in a time warp.


50% of over 40’s have been divorced.
A good number are b*stards anyway
A large number of existing marriages are dysfunctional.


I’m sure more than 50% of women have some of the above.

A good two parent marriage is a little bonus. Sure. But the key is that she doesn’t have major parental issues. Anything short of that, I wouldn’t worry.

Of all the women I’ve dated to some decent degree. Only a small handful have really good parental dynamics.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

True


I don’t know about the whole “respect” for men thing, but if you’re looking to get married then don’t date someone who didn’t see their parents together on a daily basis.

 

[Off the Onion]

I’m certain th Coli is in a time warp.


50% of over 40’s have been divorced.
A good number are b*stards anyway
A large number of existing marriages are dysfunctional.


I’m sure more than 50% of women have some of the above.

A good two parent marriage is a little bonus. Sure. But the key is that she doesn’t have major parental issues. Anything short of that, I wouldn’t worry.

Of all the women I’ve dated to some decent degree. Only a small handful have really good parental dynamics.

No family is fully functional in this world.
Coming from a partially functional home is better than coming from a broken home

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I won't go as far to say two parent home, but a good relationship with her mother is ESSENTIAL! Almost every aint-shyt woman I've ever met had a terrible relationship with their mother. I noticed that shyt a LONG time ago...

 

[Off the Onion]

I won't go as far to say two parent home, but a good relationship with her mother is ESSENTIAL! Almost every aint-shyt woman I've ever met had a terrible relationship with their mother. I noticed that shyt a LONG time ago...

She needs a good relationship with her father and it will be best if he grew up in the house with her.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Stop focusing on "leading" and focus on doing your best in every role you find yourself in. If you are a good husband/father and you choose a good partner you will live a happy life, even if your wife isn't the type to bring your pipe + slippers + newspaper + dinner to you every night. Its not 1953

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I won't go as far to say two parent home, but a good relationship with her mother is ESSENTIAL! Almost every aint-shyt woman I've ever met had a terrible relationship with their mother. I noticed that shyt a LONG time ago...

I think you mean her father bro.

 

[Freedman]

What if I'm also from a single parent home

 

[Off the Onion]

Me and wifey came from 2 parent households in which men who were unfit to lead led. We came out OK because we were old enough that we figured shyt out before the damage was done, but our younger siblings weren't as lucky

I think brehs should focus more on being the best in every role they choose.... husband... father... worker/owner... friend... brother... son, whatever.... choose a woman who compliments your life, even if she doesn't bring you your slippers + dinner + newspaper + pipe every night.... from there everything falls into place

A lot of dudes want to "lead" but don't really now how to lead or why they should lead. shyt is corny

It's really tragic to hear that both of your father's were officially in its red haired woman read out all because of this experience. But even having a sorry excuse for a father prepared you better for marriage to not having a father at all.

What I'm saying as well as young men should avoid women who don't have Father's in their households or come from traditional families

 

[Off the Onion]

What if I'm also from a single parent home

Then you need someone for most stable environment in your life even more so

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Going by this dumb ass logic, almost 70% of black people are disqualified from marriage; half of that remaining 30% is men so we are down to 15%. A lot women in two parent households turn lesbian so that leave roughly 10% of black women being acceptable for marriage. If I didn’t know any better that sounds like some Klan plan to cull our population numbers

 

[MollyGalaga]

You dont “need” shyt

You just gotta be the best person you can be and find YOUR match

Cause these marriages aint matching for shiznit

 

[Off the Onion]

You dont “need” shyt

You just gotta be the best person you can be and find YOUR match

Cause these marriages aint matching for shiznit

Ehh, Your best bet is marrying somebody from two parents family

 

[DropTopDoc]

nikkas basing their love life off of, wether or not she comes from a single parent home ??

:Niccwhat:


So what about us men from single parent homes??

I’m from a single parent home I’m pretty sure I’m going to be a good husband, and I’ve had no former dynamic to see


A great wife comes from putting yourself in a position to be one, and learning from dating, no different than us men, things like, being honest about your feelings, mature to handle conflicts, love unconditionally etc, and that’s not always present in two parent homes, and sometimes in two parent homes, the father tries to over compensate for his past dealings with women, or present way he treats the mom and ends up creating a fantasy world where men are supposed to endlessly cater to her, with little to know efforts or reciprocation.

To me, a great wife is the sum total of past relationships with men, what have you learned?? Past mistakes, outlooks, expectations, what do you view as a your role as a wife, and lastly you all need to quit with this cookie cutter approach to women and dating no one thought process is a monolith