Your companionship with your male friends is more important than your relationship with your woman.

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This is a serious discussion, if you don’t want to add to this discussion and debate please don’t enter or reply.

Have you noticed it is called Jesus and his disciples or Muhammad and his companions? Two of the greatest men/prophets are known for their companionship with their fellow men, and their women are hardly spoken off. But that doesn’t mean their women weren’t excellent human beings but the role they have compared to their fellow men is minimal.

Men in the modern world have forgotten the importance of male companionship and its importance. The sexes have vastly different interests; wants and needs so by virtue the times spend with each other should be limited as it can actually be somewhat counterproductive in the long run. Why do I also say this? Because men are masculine and women are feminine. Women can never reach a man’s level; however a man can be feminized and become womanly. This is the danger of being around women too long, it usually more evident in young boys and male but the effects can even be seen in grown men especially in their mannerism.

Men need to be around men more often than around women. As it keeps them masculine, assertive, aggressive in a positive way, keep them honest and they are always challenged either physically, mentally, spiritually or intellectually. The most important aspect of male companionship is the intellect aspect, something a woman can NEVER offer. Getting the men together and debating life, existence, economic theory, relationship discussions, religion, culture, history, philosophy, health and the general men banter is utmost important for the male for his mental vigour. A round table discussion with your fellow male peers is more beneficial in all aspects for you compared marathon sexual encounter with your women. One you gain and the other you lose (Somewhat cost of energy).

But that doesn’t mean you should be around male’s ALL the time, or else you will become too battle harden, remorseless, overly assertive, too competitive and somewhat tyrannical. You need the women’s warm, touch, softness and feminine nature to balance your masculine energy. This is why women DESPISE feminine men, as they cannot “demasculinize” them and their role become defunct. The women want to bring you back to balance. But too much women contact will weaken you, and when around men, they (The men if weak) will harass you to recharge you and bring you back to masculine state. It’s a fine balance.

The real source of depression in the modern world isn’t the sexless men or women, it is the companionshipless men and women. Sex is a momentarily pleasure in this long existence, while companionship and real relationship with your fellow sex is lifelong. Hence why cultivating healthy relationship with people of the same gender is utmost importance. Women just want to play the role, while men want to play the team game.

So in summary, never neglect your friendship with fellow men, if an issue raises, quickly resolve so it doesn’t hamper or destroy the relationship. Nothing beats a healthy brotherhood; it smooths the soul knowing people enjoy your company without sexual attachment.

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Your title and your message in your post are different...
No it isn’t.

Men has specific role in society. The most important role of all, to lead. There are certain characteristic leadership has and it’s found in the masculine realm. However, there is always excess and deficient in the world, hence why the need of a woman is needed to soften them slightly. But the need for women doesn’t suppress the need for real masculine companionship.

If I had to choose between being an overly masculine man or overly feminine man, I easily choose the former, as weak men are severely punished in this world.
 

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Didn’t read all of it but didn’t need to

You’re absolutely right.


It’s not even saying you don’t need female friends but having homies and tome spent with homies is important.

My girl is out right now with her homegirl while im chilling at the crib... ok cool. She been gone for like 3 hours

Later on, I’m gonna meet up with a homie for a couple drinks and she better not say shyt.

Hanging with friends is important for men and females often don’t understand this. Iron sharpens Iron
 

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No it isn’t.

Men has specific role in society. The most important role of all, to lead. There are certain characteristic leadership has and it’s found in the masculine realm. However, there is always excess and deficient in the world, hence why the need of a woman is needed to soften them slightly. But the need for women doesn’t suppress the need for real masculine companionship.

If I had to choose between being an overly masculine man or overly feminine man, I easily choose the former, as weak men are severely punished in this world.
Yes it is. Your title says relationship with your woman while your post is focusing on sex. Sex =/= a relationship.
 

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Yes it is. Your title says relationship with your woman while your post is focusing on sex. Sex =/= a relationship.

I specified if you read carefully that man’s interest, want and needs is VASTLY different than of a woman. Since sex is momentary, vast amount of your time will be spent around your interests which again is quite different from a woman. So hence why your relationship with men matters a lot in this modern world

Sex unpins the relationship between man and woman. Courting occurs because of the cardinal desire for sex not relationship.

If most men were honest, they would admit they just want some sex, a bit of cuddling and that’s where the buck ends. Outside of this they don’t want to be around their women but kicking it with the nikkas.
 

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I specified if you read carefully that man’s interest, want and needs is VASTLY different than of a woman. Since sex is momentary, vast amount of your time will be spent around your interests which again is quite different from a woman. So hence why your relationship with men matters a lot in this modern world

Sex unpins the relationship between man and woman. Courting occurs because of the cardinal desire for sex not relationship.

If most men were honest, they would admit they just want some sex, a bit of cuddling and that’s where the buck ends. Outside of this they don’t want to be around their women but kicking it with the nikkas.
All of this doesn't deal with the fact that getting sex from a want is different from getting a relationship and calling her YOUR woman, which is part of your title. This is not 1800 where the two necessarily go hand in hand.
 

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In summary: bros before hoes

Really when you break down what it is a lot of men look for in a woman we generally have laughably low standards and thus get finessed accordingly

Most men never ask themselves really "why am I pursuing a relationship with this woman?"

If it's for companionship, you've got friends that you've known longer and who understand you better.
If it's for domestic order, you can pay a housekeeper.
If it's for sex, you can pay a high class escort.

If it's for creating a family, then you must actually take your time and get to know that woman well, but also be financially, spiritually, and emotionally prepared to be a teacher and lead by example 24/7 to your kid/s while having a woman who knows you well enough to be able to speak for you if you're away.

Most men arent prepared. So we get a lot of simps, we get a lot of deadbeats.
 
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