Your Lady Going Solo

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[Kiyoshi-Dono]

nikkas really gotta stop with that “insecure” blaming
No nikka..
That’s common sense and being around women/relationships all your life..
When a woman is truly fukking with you and loves you..
She trying to be up under you 24/7..
Trying to get you to go to stores, have you fixing shyt or renovating..
When she starts wanting to go out solo dolo(unless it’s a fitness class or yoga class)without you..
Yeah..
You better get your spiritual fitness together..
Next it will be not answering the phone as soon as you call..
Hitting you with a text like..
“I’m out”
Most women hate being alone(especially eating alone)..
*always exceptions to the rule headass*
Usually when this occurs..
You guys are in a rough patch
Or..
She out here interviewing a new prospect..
Or
In Brazil with the girls

 

[RJThaGreat]

nikkas really gotta stop with that “insecure” blaming
No nikka..
That’s common sense and being around women/relationships all your life..
When a woman is truly fukking with you and loves you..
She trying to be up under you 24/7..
Trying to get you to go to stores, have you fixing shyt or renovating..
When she starts wanting to go out solo dolo(unless it’s a fitness class or yoga class)without you..
Yeah..
You better get your spiritual fitness together..
Next it will be not answering the phone as soon as you call..
Hitting you with a text like..
“I’m out”
Most women hate being alone(especially eating alone)..
*always exceptions to the rule headass*
Usually when this occurs..
You guys are in a rough patch
Or..
She out here interviewing a new prospect..
Or
In Brazil with the girls

This may be my inexperience, but how does shorty asking me to renovate mean she really down for me?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

This may be my inexperience, but how does shorty asking me to renovate mean she really down for me?

That statement is for men who are in long term relationships or marriage..
But even for the single man who is in cuff mode..
A woman’s home is her sanctuary..
She wants it to be comfortable and inviting for her friends/family..
So if she is asking you questions on furniture, TVs, etc..
She actually cares about your opinion of not only her but her life..
It my just be a toaster or painting to you..
But to her she hears your actual interest in her..
It’s the simple things..
Also to piggy back off that..
When a woman comes to your home..
That is the first thing she sizes you up on..
A man with a comfortable, modern pad..
She knows you are responsible, clean, reliable and you can take care of yourself..
So she might try to add small touches to your home that only another woman would notice..
Claim territory..
It could be as small as a candle or vase..
Or..
Can be big as a certain art piece..
Renovation and decorating to women is just one of many tells on how a woman fukks with you..