Your wife is due with y’all’s first born but the baby don’t want to come, are you staying? UPDATE: SHES IN LABOR 8/12. Post 71

Why would you do?

  • Them bills won’t pay themselves.

    Votes: 25 67.6%
  • No way I’m going to miss my first born.

    Votes: 12 32.4%

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Devilinurear

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My cousin is going through it. Keep in mind this is taking place in todays job market.

She’s about 5 days past due to the point where the doctors are trying to convince them to induce.

He took some time off from work….contract work, to fly back home with his wife because she wanted to give birth where she will be immediately close to family…as opposed to flying with a new born. Everything would have aligned if the baby was born on time.

Problem is he already extended his time off to the point where they are saying if you don’t come back in the next few days then don’t come back at all. I’m sure they said it nicer way.

He makes $150,000 per year with zero education on top of doing a 5 year state vacation a few years ago so it’s good money. He’s worried that if he gets fired that he won’t be able to land another job like this again BUT they (the couple) don’t want to induce because according to him that will stress the baby and something about a C section.

You risking steady work by being there for your first born or we saying f them kids and you’ll see the little bundle of joy at a later date?

She don’t work 🤲🏾
He better get back to work
 

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It would be nice to be there frfr. But if he has paternity leave, he should take that for a few weeks or months when the kiddo can actually see and they can bond. The birth is mostly forms and tests.

I would be looking for a new job regardless tho. Take that experience and get something even better.
 

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To be honest they don't sound too bright at all

If he loses his job then what?

Dude needs to wake up pronto :snoop:
 

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Thank God i wasnt born a female :whew:






















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One thing I can count on is my coli dawgs to be on the same page :myman:



As my wife was telling me the story in my head I’m like that nicca gots to go then at the end of the conversation my wife was like “he’s gonna have to look for a new job”:skip:
Your wife a goof
 

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How you make that much money and can’t take time for something serious like that?

I know nikkas in the low 6 that be at the barbershop, the doctor, the gym, and they mamas house all in the same day
You think jobs just give unlimited time off
 

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Fathers or the non-birthing parent get paternity leave.
Maternity leave is for childbirth and recovery.
I’m aware, I was hoping to show the person I quoted that they’re the actual moron :skip:
 

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C section
thats how i was born! 2 weeks late, came out the womb :flabbynsick: with underdeveloped lungs

thats a tough decision but he might wanna just get someone to film it

honestly they should just give him the extra time off but it sounds like corporate america is gonna corporate america
 

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thats how i was born! 2 weeks late, came out the womb :flabbynsick: with underdeveloped lungs

thats a tough decision but he might wanna just get someone to film it

honestly they should just give him the extra time off but it sounds like corporate america is gonna corporate america

Yeah that's how my baby was born as well. Took my wife like two months to feel herself again after that but now she's good.
 
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