30+ year old brehs, what's your cutoff age

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Young nikkas stay saying this.

When you turn thirty, a couple of things should transform. You should be steady in career, actively building up your wealth in preparation for either a family or making retirement easy to accomplish in transition once you hit your 50s or 60s.

If you're serious like that then you'll be serious about the women you court. My judgment of most of the women I have met in their twenties is that a lot are too emotionally stir crazy and inept with their finances. I don't have time for any of it.. If you ain't helping to build then I have no use for you outside of what you present physically..and I'll probably disregard those offerings as well. I ain't getting trapped.

OK but the 20 year olds that are too emotionally stir crazy and inept with their finances don't magically change once they get older. Those unmarried spinsters are those previously 20 now 30 year old undesirables. :mjlol:
 

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18 - 22 for raw uninhibited energy, fun, exerting my dominance & blushing/laughs. No lust on my behalf but definitely appreciating the firm tauntness, freshness, & muscled body - eye candy.

26 - 30 for mutual raw sexual attraction/energy but can handle drawn out anticipation *as a woman I enjoy the feeling of buildup/anticipation more than the actual act*, fondness & mental stimulation but with friendly detachment.

34 - 38 maturity, seasoning, longevity, practical life intelligence that can be applied in real life (I also would appreciate book smarts but not as much). A slight sexual attraction *might be in dangerous territory as a woman with this age group...don't want to get sprung as men at this age are typically most mentally/emotionally/sexually stimulating off the charts* Got to be careful here!

42 - 48 Just so sociable, unpretentious masculinity, confident, independent and chivalrous - I can even get my Princess on and be indulged.

50 - 55 Feel really admired, doted on, enjoy him feeling his wishes for younger days in my presence, lol. Quiet time, wisdom, and being appreciated. No sex.

I'm sure in the next 5-10, my life spared, my thoughts will shift on this age range cut off thing.
 
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That's not true, there are plenty of 30+ who are single and stable financially and emotionally, the reason they're not married is basically because men in their age are running after young thirsty chicks. Young chicks are far more damaged than 30+ women and they're broke, that's worst:francis:

IDK man I gotta disagree with this.

You gotta remember those young damaged chicks keep aging and become those 30+ damaged chicks. Women are like elephants, they never forget. They don't suddenly become "undamaged" just by crossing the age of 30 threshold.

I honestly think the problem with relationships comes down to social media. Everyone has this ideal relationship in their head that's not real and if they're in a situation that isn't "Facebook fabulous" then the grass starts looking greener pretty much anywhere. It's hard to keep something together when you or your partner have unrealistic expectations set by flaunting ass liars on instagram and whatnot.

/rant over
 

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It depends on what you consider damaged goods. Trust and believe that what you might consider damaged goods can apply to many single men over 30 as well
You don't know how many insecure baggage carrying men I've met over the years. Most of them in my late twenties and thirties
 

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Young nikkas stay saying this.

When you turn thirty, a couple of things should transform. You should be steady in career, actively building up your wealth in preparation for either a family or making retirement easy to accomplish in transition once you hit your 50s or 60s.

If you're serious like that then you'll be serious about the women you court. My judgment of most of the women I have met in their twenties is that a lot are too emotionally stir crazy and inept with their finances. I don't have time for any of it.. If you ain't helping to build then I have no use for you outside of what you present physically..and I'll probably disregard those offerings as well. I ain't getting trapped.


To me I see it 2 ways. You either get a woman 30+ for a serious relationship or you date an 18 year old who wants to grow with you. But I know every man is different. If they don't want to do the babysitting/guidance thing, then they should stop looking for young girls for a serious relationship
 
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