I rejected another one with BM issues last week. I shoulda made another thread. Lol Like women WANT to deal with their rude ass kids and ugly BM. They're just as delusional, if not more so, as the women they talk down on.
A single dad doesn't signal responsibly. It singles he mak6e bad decisions in women. It's so rare for women to lose custody that you know the chick is a true dirt bag.
right. A lot of people will take their experiences and beliefs and apply it across the board, and spit it as fact. Every situation is different so I try to respect that. I know on this site Brehs hate single moms, and believe xyz about them. I see Brehs on here saying crazy things that just aren’t true for me (as a single mom) or reflect what’s happened in my bubble/my life. But since I recognize that regardless of my experiences there’s always others that have different experiences and beliefs, I don’t generalize or project that onto them.
Always strange to see single fathers have smoke for single moms as if they are above them, because they and the single fathers they know have a certain experience they don’t think applies to single moms.
Meanwhile like you, I know way too many women that don’t want anything to do with single fathers. And when brehettes and others say they aren’t interested in single fathers or point out that single fathers have baggage too, these same Brehs with smoke for single moms, not trying to hear that.
It’s time to admit that a lot of single childless people don’t see single parents as responsible or as catches compared to childless people. Single fathers are not above single mothers. And the fact that they don’t think their shyt stinks the same it’s their own personal issue that life will work out.
I just rejected a single father the other day, for being on that. We were talking and I mentioned an issue one of my friends was having with her son. So then he asks me where the dad was, and I explained that he wasn’t in the picture. And he said “I don’t get that. I don’t get those single moms that don’t have the dad in the picture. They make the choice to have baby with men who they know won’t stick around”. Now this breh is single dad himself. Like how dare you judge my friend when you not with your child’s mom either. Clearly neither choosing good because neither is with the person they had a baby with. Huge red flag, when you can judge someone else but can’t see your own shyt.
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I always gotta tell the bum ass nikkas on this board to go outside and see how the real world operates and now im telling the broads on this board the same thing, coronoa done fukked all yall heads up