I used to date this broad back in 2018
It ultimately ain’t worc out mainly cuz she was way too money hungry and always still playing the field holding out for a top option
At the time I was 23 she 27
The last 5 years we would text here n there but not really bout nothing and I would usually be the one to initiate it
I would still text her on her bday she would never text me on mines
Ff to this month
We text agin this time her whole energy is different
She’s talking about how much I’ve grown and how she is ready for a husband n family n this n that. Then she asked if I had a baby now i told her yea
the energy of the convo changed
Anyways let’s get to the real story
She text me the other morning basically a good morning. How r you blah blah. Then I ask her bacc n she says she isn’t doing well. She “fuccd herself up “
Im assuming she hurt herself or sumn so I wish her well
She then calls me about an hour later(first time we been otp in years )
Basically she “fuccd” herself up financially and told me how. She concluded the convo and constantly reassured me she didn’t call to asc for no money she just needed to vent cuz she knows I’m always a good listener. I told her it’s cool I’ll help her out on Monday or Tuesday when i put on my card(the card I use for cash app)
Anyways Monday came and I just decided I’m not helping her. My dilemma isn’t with doing her wrong so much as it’s me always coming thru and being a man of my word. No matter what my feelings towards a person is if i tell them ima do something for them I always do it even if we on bad terms atm
Will I be a fucc boy for telling her ima help her but don’t ?
