Black Father Doesn't Allow His Kids To Wear Hoodies, Dark Clothes Or T-Shirts!

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I should have included black women as well but like it or not you're judged by the way you are dressed and it's not just white people doing the judging either.

Yeeeeeah but that's not what you said and that's probably not what you meant. So how should black men be dressing to better present themselves? Should we be wearing ascots and pastel color bowties? Can we not wear beanies or hoodies anymore?
 
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I wear what I want cause I don't care what society thinks of me as a black man. My actions and how I carry myself aren't dictated by white people. They gonna hate on you anyways so why give in to their bullshyt?

They don't want to change as people...they want people to change for them. That's white privilege y'all. I can't believe there are punk ass spineless negros like this still around still playing into this bullshyt!
 
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When the oppressed raise their offpspring to be accept the oppression, then the oppressor needs no longer to oppress.

It's in times like these where I hear dikk Gregory saying "Sometimes, it's better to die."

I would never teach my children that they need to lower their humanity in order to make white supremacy more comfortable with their blackness. I would never teach my children that their blackness has to be turned down, so that society can better cope with it. Because by doing that, I'm giving credibility to filth. I'm teaching them, whether I realize it or not, that white supremacy is right.....there is something wrong with them and they need to conform their being to something that hates them in order to exist.

Just couldn't do it. There's a difference between being aware and strategic and being downright scared.

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I've repped too many posters in this thread...This is trill talk.
 

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I wear what I want cause I don't care what society thinks of me as a black man. My actions and how I carry myself aren't dictated by white people. They gonna hate on you anyways so why give in to their bullshyt?

They don't want to change as people...they want people to change for them. That's white privilege y'all. I can't believe there are punk ass spineless negros like this still around still playing into this bullshyt!


Gotta prepare your kids for war, not teach them how to retreat.

That means during peace time, they should be at ease soldier. Not retreating (i.e., be non-threatening).

When it is all out war, they should be able to get out of trouble wisely. Either retreat or engage. That means be strategic.


He's only telling them 50% of what they need to know.

Even the biggest gangstas will know when to go for their gun or when to diffuse the situation.
 

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I keep reading about posters calling the dad a c00n/p*ssy/bytch etc but have yet to give a solution on how to handle this situation as a father. I'm not a dad but how would any of the brehs in here handle this situation if they do have children.

Like @Canadadry said this a catch 22. You don't want to take their individuality away or have them conform to society but at the same time they gotta know what they're about to face as they get older.
I have for sons.. son. Dude is a bytch... you can be smart without fullling accepting, and laying on ur back for mainstream society.
 

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fukk is wrong with this dude?

he's a power c00n that still holds onto his black identity. these guys would be valuable assets to the black race if we had a real economy and community to receive them. this guy reminds me of @The Nigerian, pro-black on the outside but secretly yearns for acceptance into the white power infastructure, instead of helping craft his own.
 

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I wouldn't call him a c00n. I just think he is overprotective as a father. He went too far in trying to protect his children from racism. Even though his approach is over-the-top, I respect him for infusing social awareness of racism in his home.
 

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I should have included black women as well but like it or not you're judged by the way you are dressed and it's not just white people doing the judging either.

Whatever :camby:

I'm wear whatever I want, wherever I want to the day I die......


I'm not going dress a certain way.make people feel more comfortable :camby:
 

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Some of yall are full of shyt.

If a woman goes out the house in a mini dress and she was approached by men for sex you would be like "Oh yeah well she shouldn't have dressed like that...she should have expected that".

It's the same to me when you dress in what's typically considered"urban"/thug/street wear or whatever the fukk. Like I said, like it or not you're judged by how you dress.

:ehh: Ok. I'll start wearing my suits while I'm running errands, jogging, chilling and hanging minding my business



Anybody know where I can find some suit pajamas? I don't wanna misrepresent myself and look thuggish in my dreams :patrice:
 

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This is actually a really good read

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  • Today, we introduced a new extended menu in the two grill rooms. We added shrimp quesadillas ($6) to the appetizer list—and neither the members nor Hazel could pronounce the name of the dish or fathom what it was. One man pounded on the table and demanded to know which country the dish had come from.

  • When members complain that the chili is too hot and spicy, instead of making a new batch, take the sting out by adding some chocolate syrup.

  • "I guess it's just that the members probably want to have a place where they can go and not have to think about Jews, blacks, and other minorities. It's not really hurting anyone. It's really a Wasp club. . . . But now that I think of it, there is a guy here who some people think is Jewish, but I can't really tell. Upstairs, there's a Jewish secretary too."

  • Fathers seemed to be uniformly taller than six feet.

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I keep reading about posters calling the dad a c00n/p*ssy/bytch etc but have yet to give a solution on how to handle this situation as a father. I'm not a dad but how would any of the brehs in here handle this situation if they do have children.

Like @Canadadry said this a catch 22. You don't want to take their individuality away or have them conform to society but at the same time they gotta know what they're about to face as they get older.

I'm a father and what this guy is displaying is cowardice and complete emasculation.

You teach your kids of the dangers and how to confront the dangers as a MAN.

He's like the African nikka on Friday who was bringing the cd back and yelled, "I'm just a bytch as nikka! Don't hit me!"
 
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This thread has exposed a lot of you c00n ass scary, shoeshinin nikkaz. nikkaz are seriously on some "we bets not make massa uncomfortable with our clothes"

"Maybe if wee's don't wear sneakers, massa won't beat us"

"Maybe if wee's in before dark, massa won't beat me"

"If i's grin and buckdance for shop owners, then massa won't beat me in the store"

:camby: fukk outta here with that submissive ass slave talk. Some of yall nikkaz sound lame and scared as fukk. I hope yall don't raise children to think like that
Trill talk.
 

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Yeah, I just can't get down with this. :snoop:

Telling your kids what's up is one thing, but having them go way out of their way to appear nonthreatening to white people (who will find them threatening anyway) is weak as fukk.
 

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This just reminds me that a lot of black people refuse to accept the root cause of the hatred of Caucasians towards.. specifically black people.
It doesn't matter what you wear, how you behave, the diction of your speech.......... you are considered a sub-human ape (animal) to white supremacist.

Think of it this way... you walk outside see a grizzly bear chilling walking down the street near your house today, would you just let it go by minding its own business or would you call the authorities or better yet shoot the bear due to the implicate threat. That's what they think about you, (a dangerous animal that should not exist in their territory because it just might attack)

You cannot bow down to that sort of mind-state. You just have to be aware and work with your own people on creating a separate economy that can sustain itself and move on with life.
 
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